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    • THE EVANS GROUP LLCHOW OTHERS SEE YOUChip Evans, PH.D.A Quick Test – Understand how others see you!“Perception IS Someone’s Reality”
    • Chip Evans, Ph.D. www.theevansgroupllc.comHOW OTHERS SEE YOU“Perception IS Someone’s Reality”What Might You Change?Take this Quick Test, and then Score ItRead the Interpretation that FollowsUnderstand How Others See You.1) When do you feel your best?a) In the morningb) During the afternoon & early eveningc) Late at night2) You usually walka) Fairly fast, with long stepsb) Fairly fast, with short, quick stepsc) Less fast, head up, looking the world in the faced) Very slowly3) When talking to people youa) Stand with your arms foldedb) Have your hands claspedc) Have one or both of your hands on your hipsd) Touch or push the person to whom you are talkinge) Play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair4) When relaxing, you sit witha) Your knees bent with your legs neatly side-by-sideb) Your legs crossedc) Your legs stretched out or straightd) One leg curled under you5) When something really amuses you, you react witha) A big, appreciative laughb) A laugh, but not a loud onec) A quiet chuckled) A sheepish smile6) When you go to a party or social gathering youa) Make a loud entrance so everyone notices youb) Make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you knowc) Make a quiet entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
    • Chip Evans, Ph.D. www.theevansgroupllc.comHOW OTHERS SEE YOU“Perception IS Someone’s Reality”7) You’re working very hard, concentrating hard, and you’re interrupted. Do you?a) Welcome the breakb) Feel extremely irritatedc) Vary between these two extremes8) Which of the following colors do you like most?a) Red or orangeb) Blackc) Yellow or light blued) Greene) Dark blue or purplef) Whiteg) Brown or gray9) When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before falling asleep, you liea) Stretched out, on your backb) Stretched out, face down, on your stomachc) On your side, slightly curledd) With your head on one arme) With your head under the covers10)You often dream that you area) Fallingb) Fighting or strugglingc) Searching for something or someoned) Flying or floatinge) You usually have dreamless sleepf) Your dreams are always pleasantSCORINGQUESTION A B C D E F G SCORE1 2 4 62 6 4 7 23 4 2 6 7 64 4 6 2 15 6 4 3 56 6 4 27 6 2 48 7 6 5 4 3 2 19 7 6 4 2 110 4 2 3 5 6 1TOTAL
    • Chip Evans, Ph.D. www.theevansgroupllc.comHOW OTHERS SEE YOU“Perception IS Someone’s Reality”INTERPRETATIONOVER 60 POINTS - Others see you as someone they should “handle with care.” You are seenas vain, self-centered, and as someone who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you,wishing they could be more like you, but don’t always trust you, hesitate to become too deeplyinvolved with you.51-60 POINTS – Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; anatural leader, who’s quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see youas bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chancesand enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement youradiate.41-50 POINTS – Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical and alwaysinteresting; someone who’s constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balancednot to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding;someone who’ll always cheer them up and help them out.31-40 POINTS – Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. They see you asclever, gifted, or talented, but modest…Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily,but someone who is extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expects the same loyaltyin return. Those who really get to know you realize that it takes a lot to shake your trust in yourfriends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over it if that trust is ever broken.21-30 POINTS – Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as verycautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you everdid something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everythingcarefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is causedpartly by your careful nature.UNDER 21 POINTS – People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive; someone who needslooking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn’t want toget involved with anyone or anything. They see you as a worrier who always sees problemsthat don’t exist. Some people think you are boring. Only those who know you well know thatyou aren’t.