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Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You
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Dream It, Do It, Live It: 9 Easy Steps to Making Things Happen For You

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A practical nine-step productivity guide for turning your dreams into realities. …

A practical nine-step productivity guide for turning your dreams into realities.

Dream It, Do It, Live It offers practical, realistic and understandable guidance on achieving any goal in nine easy steps. Packed with a series of easy to follow steps and supported by real life examples, this book acts as your mentor, asking you the right questions as you embark on the journey of making your dreams a reality.
• Turn your dreams into a reality using sound management principles
• Follow steps that are practical, understandable, realistic and doable
• Grow your confidence and self-belief in taking on new challenges
• Learn from real life experiences from people who have achieved a variety of different dreams

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  • 1. ‘Time to take step one onyour next adventure!’David Caswell, entrepreneur andco-founder RatedPeople.com
  • 2. A practical nine-step productivity guidefor turning your dreams into realitiesoffers practical, realistic andunderstandable guidance on achieving any goal in nine easysteps. Packed with a series of easy to follow steps andsupported by real life examples, this book acts as your mentor,asking you the right questions as you embark on the journey ofmaking your dreams a reality. Turn your dreams into a reality using sound management principles Follow steps that are practical, understandable, realistic and doable Grow your confidence and self-belief in taking on new challenges Learn from real life experiences from people who have achieveda variety of different dreamsSTOPDREAMING,STARTDOING!buy today fromyour favouritebookstore
  • 3. sampler on your blog or website, or email it toany dreamers you know who need to get going.Thank you.PleasefeelfreetopostthisExtracted from published in 2013 by Capstone Publishing Ltd (a Wiley Company), The Atrium, SouthernGate, Chichester, West Sussex, PO19 8SQ. UK. Phone +44(0)1243 779777Copyright © Richard Newton and Ciprian Adrian RusenAll Rights Reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic,mechanical, photocopying, recording, scanning or otherwise, except under the terms of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 or under the terms of a licence issued by theCopyright Licensing Agency, 90 Tottenham Court Road, London, W1T 4LP, UK, without the permission in writing of the Publisher. Requests to the Publisher should be addressed to thePermissions Department, John Wiley & Sons Ltd, The Atrium, Southern Gate, Chichester, West Sussex, PO19 8SQ, England, or emailed to permreq@wiley.co.uk.
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  • 5. 3The secret of getting ahead isgetting started.Mark Twain
  • 6. 2The GoalWhen we look at people, we can categorize them into two general types. Firstly,there are those people who start things without thinking. Secondly, there arethose who spend forever thinking and dreaming, but never actually start. Whatyou should aim to achieve is a balance between those two extremes. If you have followed thefirst three chapters of this book, you should not make the first mistake. If you follow what weadvise in this chapter, you should not make the second.Starting sounds so easy but for many reasons it is often harder than you expect. People putoff starting important things all the time. Common sense tells us all that you can’t finishsomething unless you start it. But this is one of those pieces of common sense we are allguilty of ignoring regularly.Don’t Postpone!Everybody, at times, puts off starting things we know we really ought to do NOW. We were alltaught that the sooner we start something, the sooner it is over. But there are lots ofthings on a daily basis we put off and reschedule for a later date. Yet this should notbe true for you and others reading this book. -
  • 7. 3You are about to fulfil a dream, and you have a map showing you how to achieve the dream.Surely you’re going to get on with it now?Hopefully yes, but in reality, the answer will often be no. Why is this? Why do we postponeeven doing the things we really want to do? There are three reasons:Reason 1 – You don’t Want Your Dream EnoughLots of people have dreams, or think they have dreams but just don’t have the energy orenthusiasm to actually follow them through. There is a simple answer to this: you do notwant your dream as much as you think you do. Laziness is something which applies to manyareas of everyone’s lives, but if you really want something, then you will find a way toovercome it.Since you are reading this book, laziness is probably not such a big problem. The next tworeasons though are the real issues that get in the way of even the least lazy person in theworld: finding time and overcoming ourselves.
  • 8. 4Reason 2 – You can’t Find the TimeFinding the time to follow your dream can be a real problem. We strongly advise you not tokeep putting off your dream until you think you will have the time to pursue it. People who dothis tend to end up finding they never have the time to pursue their dreams.Finding time can be hard. We suggest four ways to find some time: Firstly, analyze how you actually spend your time. All of us have wasted time in our lives– isn’t your dream more important than watching TV or going to the cinema? We are notsuggesting you live the life of a monk, but that if you really assess what you spend yourtime doing, you will find some time to pursue your dream. Secondly, prioritize how you spend your time. If you really want your dream to be real, itshould be one of your highest priorities. Achieving a dream can mean giving up someother less important activities, but you can always come back to them later. When youhave to postpone some activity, do not choose those things associated with achievingyour dream.
  • 9. 5 Thirdly, a big problem can come from the important people around us. Following a dreamcan sometimes mean that people like partners, friends and family have less of our time.Most probably some of them won’t like this. When you start out on your dream, try tostrike a bargain with those people who are important in your life. Tell them your dream isreally important to you, and for a period of time you need their support and understandingthat this is where you will be focusing. Best of all, get them involved and excited by yourdream too! Fourthly, use the time you have. If you have a free hour now – use it. When you find aspare day – work on your dream. Rarely will you find whole weeks or months free, butif you are lucky enough to have such time on your hands – seize it. Never do nothingbecause you think “oh I need 3 months to do this, and I don’t have 3 months free”. Ifyou think like this, chances are you will never have 3 months free and never achieve yourdream. Successful people use up all those little gaps in their days and make progresstowards their dreams, no matter how little.Reason 3 – OurselvesThere is still one more problem which is much more of a challenge. The biggestimpediment to getting dreams underway is ourselves.
  • 10. 6Everyone has an internal dialogue going on in their heads all the time. This dialogue canbe positive and helpful, but it also can be damaging and even destructive. One of the mostcommon sensations when people start out on a dream is fear. Fear of what? Fear of theunknown. Fear of failure. Fear of making a fool of yourself.The first thing to realize is that everyone has these feelings at times. Very few people arecompletely without doubt. But when you find yourself having these feelings, you have to forceyourself to face up to them. When you face up to them, you will find that they often disappear.Let’s think about some of the things that stop people from moving forward: Fear of the unknown: this really should not bother you that much. This is your dream. Is itreally that unknown? If it means doing new things – isn’t that exciting? And as you moveforward, you can go at your own pace and bring on the unknown as slowly or as quickly asyou are willing to. Fear of failure: what can you actually fail at? No attempt to follow a dream is ever really afailure, even if you don’t achieve your dream. All that happens is that you learn more andcan work out other better ways to achieve this dream or even a better dream next time.There is no better teacher than personal experience, and you will never get to havepersonal experience if you don’t try. In the end, wouldn’t you rather be someone whohas at least tried, failed and learned something than someone who didn’t even try?
  • 11. 7 Fear of making a fool of yourself: the only fools in life are those people who nevertry anything. The smartest and most successful people try lots of things, not alwayssuccessfully, but are always learning from and usually enjoying the experience.Of course, there may be real risks associated with your dream, such as losing a lot of moneyif you have to make a big investment. We don’t want to trivialize this, but you must learn todifferentiate between real risks and risks which exist only in your mind.Making the First StepIf you want your dream enough, you will overcome laziness, find some time, andconquer your own fears.What happens then? You start. You follow the first steps on your map. What will it be like?The next three chapters are going to help you keep going but, for now, we want to helpyou prepare for the feeling of those first steps.The first thing is that it won’t feel as you imagined. Don’t be put off by this. This issimply because no matter how vivid your dream is and how clear your map, it is neverexactly like reality. Feel the reality and enjoy it. Rather than being concerned, feelpleased with yourself that you are now moving ahead.
  • 12. 8The fact that reality is never exactly the same as dreaming should be seen as a good thing,not a difficulty. As you move forward, you will find yourself learning and adapting.The second thing is that pretty soon you will be faced with a problem that you have notforeseen. We will deal with this in the ‘Persevere’ chapter. All we want to say now is: don’t letproblems put you off. Expect problems to show up and be willing to learn from them, adaptand improve your approach to making the dream come true. The reason that some peopleseem to achieve a lot isn’t because they have no problems themselves, but because they arewilling to do the work to solve them. Keep focused on your dream and keep movingtowards it.How will I Know I’ve Done Well?It might seem that there is very little here to let you know that you’ve done well. Afterall, you have just taken your first step. What happens will be unique to you. But wefind that when you start, the following tend to happen, (and they are all good signs asthey mean progress is being made):
  • 13. 9 You feel a little emotional. Maybe you will have that feeling that is a combination ofenthusiasm intertwined with fear. Many people feel like this. As you move forward, thefear will slowly go away. On the other hand, perhaps you will feel a sense of relief – thethinking is over and now you are doing. If you don’t feel any emotion, chances are youhave not really started. You will have done something. Give yourself a pat on the back, even if it is just onesmall step and there are thousands to go. Celebrate! Even if you do it in a small way, likeenjoying a glass of wine with your partner or best friend. Often, the first steps are thehardest. After a while, you will find yourself building momentum. You will have learnt something. It may be something very small, but at every step youlearn more both about the dream and yourself. Don’t lose this learning – it is valuable.Every time you make progress think about it and reflect on what you have learnt. Something will have gone wrong. This may sound like an odd thing to say now, but it isusually true that something goes wrong pretty soon after starting. Don’t worry, everyoneexperiences this. It is not until something goes wrong, and you find a way to solve theproblem, that you are really moving. Best of all don’t think of these as problems – butmerely as variances between your map and reality. A variance that you will find a way ofworking around.
  • 14. 10What Our Heroes SayAlexWe managed to catch up with Alex one sunny afternoon and were luckyenough to sit outside in the sunshine and talk to him.1. How did you start? First, I had to pick the medical field in which I wanted to become specialized. This wassomething I was working on anyway, when we started our discussions. There weren’t anyimportant first steps for me to take on this, except making the decision about the field tochoose, which ended up being the field of pulmonology, or respiratory as it is called in somecountries. For me, the real start of this dream was when I managed to find an initial research teamand we started work on identifying the topic for our research thesis.There were six of us (both students and teachers) – all knowing we needed to worktogether on a great research project that would allow us – the students – to get thespecialization we dreamed of. We had no idea of exactly what research topic we wouldcover, but we knew we had to find something worthwhile.
  • 15. 11 We searched the speciality literature for interesting topics and trends to cover, chose sometheories that seemed worth pursuing and made some initial experiments to see wherethey got us. The trouble is that all our experiments failed and got us nowhere. Nothing wasconfirming the hypothesis we drafted initially.2. That’s a tough way to start. What did you do next? We all panicked and had no idea what to do next. That’s why we called in the seniorinvestigator, who had agreed to sponsor our research, for help. With his help, wesuccessfully changed our methodology for making a research hypothesis and the way wemade rough experiments, to confirm we were looking in the right direction. After a fewdays we were doing a lot less trial and error based experiments. We now had a “method toour madness”, a method that was getting us closer to where we wanted to be: finding anexciting research hypothesis that was worth investigating and was interesting enough for usto obtain the funding and resources required to work on it.3. Did you succeed in finding it? Yes we did. But it wouldn’t have been possible without the help we received from our seniorinvestigator.
  • 16. 12OliveWe meet Olive late one evening. It had been a long day for all of us and at first theconversation is slow. But once Olive gets talking, we all get excited about finding out thatthe journey to her dream has really started.1. How did you start? It happened by chance, before we started conversations about this dream, we figured outways of working towards it. As I said before, this is an old dream of mine and I had recentlymet a canto teacher – Amira – with whom I became friends. She listened to me singing acouple of times and said that I have what it takes to become a real singer. I started workingon this dream when she said she wanted to coach me, help me improve and learn moreabout being a real singer. Only then did I start to do some real thinking about what thisdream will take to become reality: the steps involved, the things I need, etc.2. So, Amira was the catalyst that made you take this dream more seriously than before? Yes, she was. With her help, I was able to clarify the best way to start and the importantsteps I need to take. Talking with her, seeing her confidence in me and the fact that I canaccomplish this dream, meant a lot and gave me the confidence to actually start.
  • 17. 133. So, how were the first steps you made? They were hard. I started by singing in karaoke bars. At that time I had quite a few fears: thefear of singing in public surrounded by strangers, the fear of singing in an unfamiliar place,the fear of my singing not being enjoyed by others.4. How did you get past your fears? While going to these bars, I studied the people that generally go there to sing. I noticedthat many of them had a passion for singing, wanted similar things to what I want, from amusical perspective, and shared the same shyness and fears. So, I felt safer and sang moreand more. I noticed that people were actually trying to be supportive, that it is OK to makemistakes and I can actually learn from them.
  • 18. 14Anna and AmeliaWe meet Anna and Amelia in Anna’s home town of Cheltenham, where we asked themabout how they came to start their business.1. Tell us about how you came to start the business? Well, it took longer than we expected! It must have been about 2 years before we actuallystarted the business; Amelia made some cards for Christmas. They were beautiful andpeople who received them (including Anna), started to keep them and even frame them aspictures. We were having a social conversation and we realized that we both wanted to starta small business. In the conversation we thought Amelia’s cards would be a good productto start a business with. As we talked further, we came to realize that we would like to worktogether to run this business.2. Why did it take 2 years from discussion to starting? It was just the everyday things in life that got in the way. Plus at some point, both of ushad elderly relatives to support. This went on for a while. We were getting frustrated. So wetalked, and we realized we just had to make it real. We had to start, even if it was very slowto begin with. Else we might delay it forever!
  • 19. 153. So what was it like starting? It was great, a little nerve racking, but at the same time a relief, as we had been talkingabout it for so long. We started slowly: talking, thinking and working out what needed to bedone to really set up the business.4. Did you want to go faster? To some extent yes, but funnily enough there was a big advantage in going slowly. Weneeded time to allow ourselves the opportunity to explore ideas and come up with creativeconcepts. We had time to do some informal market research: what was selling online,in shops and in galleries? Was there anything like our cards? What sort of price wereequivalent products selling for and so on? If we had forced ourselves to a deadline too early,we might not have got this far. There is something very liberating about not forcing yourselfalong a fixed timeline, as long as you are making progress. But once we had our ideas sorted – both for the products and how we would sell them – westarted moving faster. Now we work to deadlines, many of which are set by external eventssuch as having a collection ready for a trade show.
  • 20. 165. How did the business launch? We more or less simultaneously launched our website and emailed everyone we knewabout the business. We planned to launch the business in September, to be ready to sellcards for Christmas. In the end, we were a month late because the website took longer todevelop than we expected.6. Is there anything else you would add about starting? Yes, we think one thing is very important for a partnership. To make it work, you have tounderstand each other’s pace of work, strengths and weaknesses. If one of you is alwayspressing for timelines while the other is not bothered how long it will take, it will not work.It’s a partnership and you have to flex to each other’s style. The other thing is that we both admit it would have been better to have started earlier. Weboth had valid reasons for not starting, but you have to start sooner or later. On the otherhand, once we started, it was right to go slowly. Because we allowed ourselves to go slowlyat first, it was easier for us to find the time to make progress. So we would advise anyoneelse to be realistic about the amount of time they have and then make as much or as littleprogress as they can in that time. You can wish forever that you have more time, it’s farbetter to use what you have, even if it is not much.
  • 21. 17Questions to Ask Yourself Am I certain that I want this specific dream enough? Where can I find the time to pursue the dream? Am I really challenging myself to make the time available? Am I really seizing all thosemoments when I could work on my dream? Is my internal dialogue holding me back from my own dreams? Are my doubts and fears less compelling than the thought of achieving my dream? Have I actually started? If not, why not?SummaryOften the reason people don’t achieve their dreams is that they never start! You maynot have started on your dreams because deep down you don’t want the dream youare thinking about enough. Explore your feelings more closely, as you will only find theenergy and drive to achieve the dreams you really want. Alternatively, you may not havestarted because you cannot find the time. By analyzing how you spend your time and grabbinghold of all the gaps you have, you will find more time than you expect. Finally, you maynot have started on your dream because of yourself and your own internal dialoguestopping you making progress. You have it within yourself to overcome personaldoubts. Fears of the unknown, failure, or making a fool of yourself can be overcome.The rather obvious, but critically important guideline is simply – if you don’t ever startyou will never finish. By starting you are moving from just Dreaming to Doing, andare on the way to making your dream reality.
  • 22. Richard Newton and Ciprian Adrian Rusen are bothexperienced project managers having delivered projectsworth millions of dollars.Richard Newton is a projectmanager, a managementconsultant, a company directorand the author of numerousbooks including the bestsellingproject management The ProjectManager (part of the FT series).Richard and Ciprian also blog together at .They both speak regularly at a variety of events such as TheAssociation of Project Managers and The Change ManagementInstitute. They have also spoken at the London Business Schooland Cranfield.Ciprian Adrian Rusen isa self confessedtechno-geek as well asa great project manager.You can find him all oversocial media.about the authorswww.corporategeek.info
  • 23. For more info visitGet your copy todayand start makingyour dreamscome trueOr join the conversation on

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