Making sure you succeed in getting that proposal


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Making sure you succeed in getting that proposal

  1. 1. Making Sure You Succeed In Getting That Proposal of Marriage Carmen Gilfillan
  2. 2. <ul><li>It can be an issue when you’re ready for marriage, but you’re unsure whether he is </li></ul>
  3. 3. <ul><li>Raising the idea of marriage in an upbeat, non-aggressive way avoids holding your partner to ransom </li></ul>
  4. 4. <ul><li>Marriage is a vital issue so keep things casual and pleasant to ensure you succeed in getting that proposal of marriage </li></ul>
  5. 5. <ul><li>The following tips will help increase the likelihood that he’ll ask you to marry him: </li></ul>
  6. 6. <ul><li>1. Work through any issues around marriage </li></ul><ul><li>There may be a number of reasons why he may have issues around marriage… </li></ul>
  7. 7. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>…He may know of people whose marriages have broken down… </li></ul>
  8. 8. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>…His parents may have divorced… </li></ul>
  9. 9. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>… He may just be unsure about that level of commitment </li></ul>
  10. 10. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>The key is to choose the right moments (and if you’ve been together a while you’ll know when these are)… </li></ul>
  11. 11. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>…To understand what he's thinking and what difficulties he has about getting married… </li></ul>
  12. 12. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>…Talk these through and attempt to resolve them together… </li></ul>
  13. 13. Work Through Marital Issues <ul><li>…So you can move forward and decide if marriage is right for both of you </li></ul>
  14. 14. <ul><li>2. Make your relationship the best it can be </li></ul><ul><li>If he hasn’t proposed yet that doesn’t mean he won’t… </li></ul>
  15. 15. Make Your Relationship The Best <ul><li>…In the meantime value the relationship you have, and the love you have for each other... </li></ul>
  16. 16. Make Your Relationship The Best <ul><li>…There are people who would love to have your kind of relationship, so don’t take it for granted… </li></ul>
  17. 17. Make Your Relationship The Best <ul><li>Keep the relationship solid by: </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Communicating </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Being fair </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Avoiding secrets </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Adding variety </li></ul></ul>
  18. 18. <ul><li>3. Take your foot off the gas </li></ul><ul><li>If you’ve been with your man a while and marriage is constantly on your mind… </li></ul>
  19. 19. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>…It may be that you’re beginning to get frustrated that he hasn’t yet proposed... </li></ul>
  20. 20. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>This frustration, if not recognized and dealt with can begin to show through </li></ul>
  21. 21. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>Wanting marriage is one thing, becoming desperate is another and can be a turnoff for anyone... </li></ul>
  22. 22. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>…If this describes you, ease up, try taking your foot off the gas a little… </li></ul>
  23. 23. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>… And take each day as it comes. Remember to keep things light and upbeat… </li></ul>
  24. 24. Ease Off The Gas <ul><li>…And work on making your relationship the best it can be… </li></ul>
  25. 25. <ul><li>In this way marriage will become just a natural next step for both of you…if it is the right thing for both of you </li></ul>
  26. 26. <ul><li>If you want to discover more key tips on how to succeed in getting that marriage proposal go to: </li></ul>