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Affair proof your marriage –

  1. 1. Affair-Proof Your Marriage: How To Solidify Your Relationship In 3 Easy Steps CP Gilfillan
  2. 2. <ul><li>Affair-proofing your marriage is easier than you think… </li></ul>
  3. 3. <ul><li>… To ensure you keep your man make sure your mind is set for strengthening your relationship… </li></ul>
  4. 4. <ul><li>… Avoid constant worrying about whether the relationship may break down… </li></ul>
  5. 5. <ul><li>Consider these three simple steps to ensure your marriage is healthy, vibrant and insulated against the temptation of outside forces: </li></ul>
  6. 6. <ul><li>Step 1: Talk, Talk, Talk </li></ul><ul><li>Talk to your partner about what’s on your mind </li></ul><ul><li>Avoid suppressing issues that bug you </li></ul>
  7. 7. Talk, Talk, Talk! <ul><li>Worried about your partner having an affair and it's affecting your relationship…? </li></ul>
  8. 8. Talk, Talk, Talk! <ul><li>… Find a way to talk about it in a manner that doesn’t rock the boat… </li></ul>
  9. 9. Talk, Talk, Talk! <ul><li>… Explain your feelings to your partner by gently easing your way into the conversation… </li></ul>
  10. 10. Talk, Talk, Talk! <ul><li>… He's more likely to listen to you if you approach the subject in this subtle way </li></ul>
  11. 11. Talk, Talk, Talk! <ul><li>Communication is everything in a relationship </li></ul>
  12. 12. <ul><li>Step 2: Go out with each other </li></ul><ul><li>Go out together on a regular basis… </li></ul>
  13. 13. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>… Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you no longer need to date… </li></ul>
  14. 14. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>… Making time to go away together means you spend quality time with each other which strengthens the bond between you </li></ul>
  15. 15. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>Not spending sufficient time together has been shown to increase the chances of an extra-marital affair </li></ul>
  16. 16. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>Vary the activities you get involved in together and who you socialise with… </li></ul>
  17. 17. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>… There may be times when it feels good to go out with other couples, and other times when it’s just the two of you </li></ul>
  18. 18. Go Out With Each Other <ul><li>Whatever you decide to do, give yourself time and space to keep the bond between you alive </li></ul>
  19. 19. <ul><li>Step 3: Tell him how good you are together </li></ul><ul><li>Tell your partner regularly…: </li></ul>
  20. 20. Tell Him You’re Good Together <ul><li>… </li></ul><ul><li>How good you are together </li></ul><ul><li>How strong your relationship is </li></ul><ul><li>How much you love him </li></ul><ul><li>How you'd never want to be with anyone else… </li></ul>
  21. 21. Tell Him You’re Good Together <ul><li>… Be absolutely genuine about your positive comments… </li></ul>
  22. 22. Tell Him You’re Good Together <ul><li>… Avoid saying them so often they sound trite… </li></ul>
  23. 23. Tell Him You’re Good Together <ul><li>… Choose the moments carefully when you do say them so they sound special and mean something profound to him </li></ul>
  24. 24. More Information <ul><li>Find out more tips of how to successfully affair-proof your marriage </li></ul><ul><li>at </li></ul><ul><li> </li></ul>