Wednedsay Night Series - "How People Change", Week 5


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Wednedsay Night Series - "How People Change", Week 5

  1. 1. How People Change
  3. 3. Lesson 5: THORNS 1:What Entangles You?
  4. 4. CPR Preview• Central Point: The biblical picture of the THORN bush captures how sinners tend to respond sinfully to the blessings and difficulties of life.• Personal Application: God calls me to an ongoing recognition and confession of my “thorny” responses to life.• Relational Application: Because we all suffer from spiritual blindness, it is an act of Christ-like grace to lovingly help another recognize his “thorny” responses.
  5. 5. The Big Question How do I typically respond to thecircumstances and relationships God has placed in my life right now? What happens as a result?
  6. 6. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. But that is not the way you learned Christ!— assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
  7. 7. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
  8. 8. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous ( that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not become partners with them; for at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light
  9. 9. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible, for anything that becomes visible is light. Therefore it says, "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you."• Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,
  10. 10. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
  11. 11. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.“ This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother" (this is the first commandment with a promise), "that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.“ Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
  12. 12. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) Slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, not by the way of eye-service, as people- pleasers, but as servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a slave or free. Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him. Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
  13. 13. Scriptural Background: Don’t live like a Gentile• Ephesians 4:17-6:18: (cont.) Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints.
  14. 14. Scriptural Background: The promise of future glory• 2 Corinthians 4:7-5:10: But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us. We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies. For we who live are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh. So death is at work in us, but life in you.
  15. 15. Scriptural Background: The promise of future glory• 2 Corinthians 4:7-5:10: (cont.) Since we have the same spirit of faith according to what has been written, "I believed, and so I spoke," we also believe, and so we also speak, knowing that he who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and bring us with you into his presence. For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen.
  16. 16. Scriptural Background: The promise of future glory• 2 Corinthians 4:7-5:10: (cont.) For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal. For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling, if indeed by putting it on we may not be found naked. For while we are still in this tent, we groan, being burdened—not that we would be unclothed, but that we would be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee.
  17. 17. Scriptural Background: The promise of future glory• 2 Corinthians 4:7-5:10: (cont.) So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
  18. 18. Illustrations
  19. 19. Group Discussions• Homework Discussion
  20. 20. Central Point, Personal Application, and Relational Application (CPR)Central Point:• The biblical picture of the THORN bush captures how sinners respond sinfully to the blessings and difficulties of life.• A practical faith in the gospel will give me courage to examine my actions and responses to life.• A commitment to get all that is ours in Christ will lead to a commitment to daily growth and change and a willingness to humbly examine my THORNS.
  21. 21. CPRPersonal Application:• God calls me to an ongoing recognition and confession of my THORN bush responses to life.• God does not call me to morbid self- condemnation, but to a celebration of God’s grace for my life and an attitude of joyful discontent.• Because the Christian life is a war for the heart, I must not live with a peacetime mentality.
  22. 22. CPRRelational Application:• Because each of us suffers from spiritual blindness, it is an act of grace to lovingly help another recognize his THORNY responses to life.• As I call others to self-examination, I must remind them of who they are in Christ.• I must help people to look at themselves in the mirror of God’s Word and not confuse my opinion with God’s call to personal change and growth.
  23. 23. Make it Real (Homework) Think about the struggle you have chosen for your Personal Growth Project. Use the categories from this lesson to identify where you may be responding to life in THORN bush ways.• Where do you see patterns of denial, avoidance, or escape?• When or where have you magnified, expanded, or catastrophized your struggle?• Are there situations or relationships where you are prickly and hypersensitive?
  24. 24. Make it Real (Homework)• Are there situations where you are tempted to return evil for evil?• As you face this struggle, do you feel bogged down, paralyzed, captured? Where do you tend to be self- righteous or self-excusing? Be humble and honest as you answer these questions, but don’t allow yourself to become discouraged and overwhelmed. Remember, there is already evidence of good FRUIT in your life. The One who calls you to change has already given you everything you need so that those changes can actually take place (2 Peter 1:3,4).