“She must not swing her arms as
though they were dangling ropes;
she must not switch herself this
way and that; she must not shout;
and she must not, while wearing
her bridal veil, smoke a cigarette”

The Arizona Daily Star's headline of March
19, 2001, confirms it: "Stressed-out
American society gives birth to rage of all
kinds." Researchers and other experts find
we're "an enraged society," they define "toxic"
rage, and point out that "Irrational behavior
by kids at school, by sports stars, by mom
and dad, by people at work, has become the
norm. Basically, we've created a breeding
ground for violence."

An ABCNEWS/World News Tonight
Poll confirms that most of us (85%) feel
that a simple “thank you” and “please”
would make the world a better place.
And more than 8 out of 10 Americans
“say the failure of parents to instruct
their children in good behavior is a
‘major cause’ of bad manners” -- adults
with kids are “as likely as those without
to say that bad parenting is a major
cause of bad manners."

Is there such a thing as
childhood innocence? The
Parents Television Council
sees a lot more foul
language and violence aimed at
kids during the so-called family
hour than most parents
realize. Coarse language is up
78% since 1999 -- some 10
million kids on average watch
TV from 8 - 9 PM.

Cuss is a four-letter word.
These days, swearing in public
is pervasive and foul language
has become a habit for many --
with role models like sports
stars, rock stars, celebrities,
and cartoon characters leading
the cultural decline. But some
are swearing off swearing
according to ABCNEWS.com.

“The children now love luxury.
They have bad manners,
contempt for authority; they
show disrespect for elders and
love chatter in place of
exercise.” Unknown

"When we talk about table manners,
we're not necessarily talking about
which fork to choose. We're talking
… the manner in which you walk in,
how you order your food, how you
proceed through the meal, the
conversation that you make at the
table, whether it's appropriate or not
… all those things tell people
everything about you."

In a recent national poll by market
research group Synovate, 68% of
Americans claimed to observe poor cell
phone etiquette at least once per day.
Eighteen percent said they ran into poor
e-mail etiquette. The study noted that the
Americans showed the poorest etiquette
when using the very devices they rely on
the most (52% said they would “die” if
their phones and e-mails were taken
away). -- Forbes

M ODERN
The Girls’ Guide
to Etiquette

M ODERN
The Girls’ Guide
to Etiquette
(And Guys, too!)

So, what does
it mean to be
modern?

The Modern Girl’s
Etiquette Rule
Book

Preach It v. Teach It

!She always makes a GREAT
impression

!She always makes a GREAT
impression
!She practices (UN)Common
Courtesies

!She always makes a GREAT
impression
!She practices (UN)Common
Courtesies
!She is a Modern Girl & He is a
Modern Guy

Make a Great Impression
Don’t forget
to Smile! You o nly get one
Stand U chance to make a
p Straig
ht! fir st impression!

First Impressions Are About:

First Impressions Are About:
C onfidence

First Impressions Are About:
Credibility
C onfidence

First Impressions Are About:
Credibility Pre
C onf idence paration

HELLO
my name is
Introductions

When someone joins the group,
introduce them!

When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important

When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!

When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!
When being introduced, stand up to
shake hands

Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:

Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front

Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front
2. Bluff

Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front
2. Bluff
3. Cheat

When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary

When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact

When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand

When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting

When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting
5. Converse

When You Are Being Introduced
AND . . . if the person
introducing YOU has
forgotten your name --
HELP them out! by
introducing yourself.
They will really
appreciate the gesture.

When You Are Being Introduced
AND . . . if the person you
are with SHOULD
introduce you and does
not, it is OK to say “I don’t
believe we have met.”

When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!

When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!
Technique

When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!
Technique
Use a medium grip; not too loose &
not too tight

When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!
Technique
Use a medium grip; not too loose &
not too tight
Make EYE CONTACT!!

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know:

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know: “Those who are
confident and assertive
make the best first
impressions!”

Introduce
Yourself!!

Small Talk

Make the first move!

Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter

Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions

Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!

Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!
Share and Share Alike

Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!
Share and Share Alike
Remember a person’s favorite topic
is: Themselves

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
One-Upmanship

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
One-Upmanship
Nosy Neighbor

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
One-Upmanship
Nosy Neighbor
Over-Discloser

Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
One-Upmanship
Nosy Neighbor
Over-Discloser
Eddie the Expert

Oh my! What colorful language!
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Profanity Police

Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:

Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
1. Public spaces are not the place for
a potty mouth

Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
1. Public spaces are not the place for
a potty mouth
2. People are listening

Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
1. Public spaces are not the place for
a potty mouth
2. People are listening
3. #$%@% shows very little
imagination

Beyond Profanity

Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:

Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest

Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form

Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
to use as an insult. Period.

Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
to use as an insult. Period.
4. Gender specific insults are a bad idea. “Bitch”,
“Slut”, “Whore”, etc. serve no purpose.

Dress
Appropriately

Dress like . . .
. . . a Lady

Too Sexy

Too Sloppy

Too Sullen

Too Much Skin

Too Tattooed

Too Trendy

Dress like . . .
. . . a Gentleman

Too Saggy

Too Shaggy

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know:

Modern “Hygiene &
Girls & Guys
Know: Personal Grooming
are just as important
as how you are
dressed”

Modern “Making a good
Girls & Guys impression counts
Know:
ALL the time -
from presentations to
job interviews to on
the job”

Practice ( UN)Common Courtesies
Thank you
SO much! T his is the
Oh no,
you first perfect gift! I
! I insis
t! love it!

Oh! You shouldn’t have!

Giving Gifts

Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:

Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
1. The Nature of the Relationship

Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
1. The Nature of the Relationship
2. Timing

Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
1. The Nature of the Relationship
2. Timing
3. The Magnitude of the gift should
be in proportion to the relationship

Receiving Gifts

Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!

Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!

Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!
2. Never ask how much something
cost

Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!
2. Never ask how much something
cost
3. Tailor your “Thank You” to the
occasion and the giver

“Thank you!”

“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!

“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:

“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
1. Write it immediately

“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
1. Write it immediately
2. Write it by hand

“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
1. Write it immediately
2. Write it by hand
3. Mention the gift by name and
how you intend to use it

Thank you for
flying the
friendly skies!

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
When Boarding have EVERYTHING
ready to go. If you are using the
overhead bins, be courteous!

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Don’t bring stinky food on to the
plane to eat

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Once in flight, if you want to recline
your seat -- do it slowly

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Do not kick, knee, or tap the seat in
front of you

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Get out of your seat only if
necessary. “Excuse me,” is a nice
touch when moving past people

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
On an international flight, be
respectful of those who want to
sleep

Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Unless you are delivering an organ via
airplane, wait until you depart to use
your cell phone

Let’s go out to
the movies!

Let’s go out to the movie!

Let’s go out to the movie!
Don’t put your feet on the back of
the chair in front of you

Let’s go out to the movie!
Likewise, don’t kick the seat in
front of you

Let’s go out to the movie!
When traveling in a “pack” don’t
enter and exit the theater 20 times,
move seats in the theater, visit with
another “pack” two rows up, etc.

Let’s go out to the movie!
Be as quiet as possible with your
treats, especially opening packages
of candy. AND . . . take your trash
with you after the movie!

Let’s go out to the movie!
Do not TALK or TEXT on your phone
during the movie
HA !
W T
TTER
NO MA
PER
N ONE! IOD
!
I AM SERIOUS!

Always a courteous host

The Hostess with the Mostest

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation
2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
diva behavior allowed!

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation
2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
diva behavior allowed!
3. Introduce everyone to each other
& help people make connections

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests
5. Don’t take advantage of your
parents’ hospitality

The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests
5. Don’t take advantage of your
parents’ hospitality
6. No DRAMA!

The Guest who Gets Invited Back

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
5. NEVER bring people who were not
invited

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
the end

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
the end
9. Don’t linger. When the Party is
over--Go Home!

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission
11. Thank the host for their generosity

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission
11. Thank the host for their generosity
12. Return the favor at a future date by
being a host yourself. It is not cool to
always be the guest and never be the
host!

The Overnight
Guest

When guests come to stay overnight...

When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:

When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste

When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans

When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans
3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
order

When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans
3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
order
4. Offers a beautifully appointed home. A
messy room is not inviting

The Guest who Gets Invited Back

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping
6. Make the bed before leaving

The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping
6. Make the bed before leaving
7. Don’t overstay your welcome

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know:

Modern “Common Courtesies
Girls & Guys
Know: like please, thank
you, you’re welcome,
yes maam, & yes sir
are important, too!”

She is a Modern Girl &
He is a Modern Guy
Call me!
I ’ll pick you
OMG!
LOL! up at 7

Technology

When Emailing

When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly

When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!

When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation

When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care

When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care
Be careful who you reply to!

On the Phone

On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.

On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume

On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)

On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind

On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind
It’s very rude to take a call when you
are with others; let it go to voicemail

On Facebook

On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts

On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people

On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post

On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics

On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics
Be careful tagging people in your
pictures

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know:

Modern “The way you present
Girls & Guys
Know: yourself ‘online’ or
over the phone is just
as important as who
you are face to face.”

Boy Meets Girl
Girl Meets Boy

First Date, Second Date....

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.
2. If you are picking up your date, come to
the door. AND meet the parents

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.
2. If you are picking up your date, come to
the door. AND meet the parents
3. Have a plan in place. “What do you
want to do?” is not a plan. If you asked
for a date, you need to have a date
planned.

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast
5. Read the other person’s signals
throughout the date

First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast
5. Read the other person’s signals
throughout the date
6. When hanging out at each other’s
home, be helpful!

Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!

Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships

Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships
3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
complain!

Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships
3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
complain!
4. If you are with other people, don’t ignore
him

Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene

Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.

Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.

Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
ell

Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
ell
5. Don’t rush through the meal. It isn’t a
race

Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!

Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.

Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours

Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours
9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
YOUR DATE

Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours
9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
YOUR DATE
10. Make sure you have enough gas in your
car!

Modern
Girls & Guys
Know:

Modern
Girls & Guys “Lots of dates take
Know: place over a meal.
Good manners are
beyond important
when eating.”

After the date...

After the date...
Now what?

After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell

After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call

After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
or a relationship, be honest!

After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
or a relationship, be honest!
4. Call but don’t STALK. STALKING is bad
manners.

The Big Break Up

The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?

The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face

The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame

The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
3. Don’t advertise on FB

The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
3. Don’t advertise on FB
4. Don’t start engaging in such bad
behavior that you force the other
person to break up first. Don’t be a
coward!

What is a
modern day
gentleman?

Alw
ays
o
help ffers

Alw
ays
o
help ffers
eye
kes with
Ma act
ont hers
c t
o

Alw
ays
o
help ffers
eye
kes with
Ma act
ont hers
c t
o
mum ly;
sn’t lear
ble
Doe aks C
Spe

Alw
ays
o
help ffers
Tak
es o
cap ff h
eye in pu is
kes with
Ma act
blic
ont hers
c t
o
mum ly;
sn’t lear
ble
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Spe

Alw
ges ays
led o
help ffers
know ults
Ac Ad
Tak
es o
cap ff h
eye in pu is
kes with
Ma act
blic
ont hers
c t
o
mum ly;
sn’t lear
ble
Doe aks C
Spe

Alw
ges ays
led o
help ffers
know ults
Ac Ad
Tak
es o
cap ff h
eye in pu is
kes with
Ma act
blic
ont hers
c t
o
Doe
foo sn’t
mum ly;
d i ta
sn’t lear
ble
n h lk
Doe aks C
is m with
out
Spe
h

What is a
modern day
lady?

She
res has s
pec elf
t

She
res has s
pec elf
t
has es
She grac
so cial

She
res has s
pec elf
t
has es
She grac
so cial
con s “I” ance
say ear
fide m
nt!”
app
Her

She
res has s
pec elf
t
She
enga ’s able
ge o to
has es ther
s
She grac
so cial
con s “I” ance
say ear
fide m
nt!”
app
Her

ets She
org rs
r f the res has s
eve at o er
N h tt pec elf
t ma t
She
enga ’s able
ge o to
has es ther
s
She grac
so cial
con s “I” ance
say ear
fide m
nt!”
app
Her

ets She
org rs
r f the res has s
eve at o er
N h tt pec elf
t ma t
She
enga ’s able
ge o to
has es ther
s
She grac
so cial
Sh
a
wit res h
con s “I” ance
hou er
say ear
t o op
fide m
ffe inio
nt!”
app
ndi ns
ng
Her

So what is modern?
“T oday’s modern day girl and
guy are not defined by celebrity
or the changing winds of
fashion. They know that a
balance of style and substance
are essential. The modern day
girl and guy knows who they are
and that they are connected to
the bigger picture. They are
always considerate of others”