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“She must not swing her arms as
though they were dangling ropes;
she must not switch herself this
way and that; she must not shout;
and she must not, while wearing
her bridal veil, smoke a cigarette”
The Arizona Daily Star's headline of March
19, 2001, confirms it: "Stressed-out
American society gives birth to rage of all
kinds." Researchers and other experts find
we're "an enraged society," they define "toxic"
rage, and point out that "Irrational behavior
by kids at school, by sports stars, by mom
and dad, by people at work, has become the
norm. Basically, we've created a breeding
ground for violence."
An ABCNEWS/World News Tonight
Poll confirms that most of us (85%) feel
that a simple “thank you” and “please”
would make the world a better place.
And more than 8 out of 10 Americans
“say the failure of parents to instruct
their children in good behavior is a
‘major cause’ of bad manners” -- adults
with kids are “as likely as those without
to say that bad parenting is a major
cause of bad manners."
Is there such a thing as
childhood innocence? The
Parents Television Council
sees a lot more foul
language and violence aimed at
kids during the so-called family
hour than most parents
realize. Coarse language is up
78% since 1999 -- some 10
million kids on average watch
TV from 8 - 9 PM.
Cuss is a four-letter word.
These days, swearing in public
is pervasive and foul language
has become a habit for many --
with role models like sports
stars, rock stars, celebrities,
and cartoon characters leading
the cultural decline. But some
are swearing off swearing
according to ABCNEWS.com.
“The children now love luxury.
They have bad manners,
contempt for authority; they
show disrespect for elders and
love chatter in place of
exercise.” Unknown
"When we talk about table manners,
we're not necessarily talking about
which fork to choose. We're talking
… the manner in which you walk in,
how you order your food, how you
proceed through the meal, the
conversation that you make at the
table, whether it's appropriate or not
… all those things tell people
everything about you."
In a recent national poll by market
research group Synovate, 68% of
Americans claimed to observe poor cell
phone etiquette at least once per day.
Eighteen percent said they ran into poor
e-mail etiquette. The study noted that the
Americans showed the poorest etiquette
when using the very devices they rely on
the most (52% said they would “die” if
their phones and e-mails were taken
away).                          -- Forbes
M ODERN
The Girls’ Guide
 to Etiquette
M ODERN
The Girls’ Guide
 to Etiquette
  (And Guys, too!)
So, what does
 it mean to be
    modern?
The Modern Girl’s
Etiquette Rule
    Book
Preach It v. Teach It
!She always makes a GREAT
 impression
!She always makes a GREAT
 impression

!She practices (UN)Common
 Courtesies
!She always makes a GREAT
  impression

!She practices (UN)Common
  Courtesies

!She is a Modern Girl & He is a
  Modern Guy
Make a Great Impression

                     Don’t forget
                      to Smile!     You o   nly get one
Stand U                              chance   to make a
       p Straig
               ht!                    fir st impression!
First Impressions Are About:
First Impressions Are About:




C onfidence
First Impressions Are About:




            Credibility
C onfidence
First Impressions Are About:




             Credibility Pre
C onf idence                 paration
HELLO
 my name is



Introductions
When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When someone joins the group,
introduce them!

When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
When someone joins the group,
introduce them!

When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!
When someone joins the group,
introduce them!

When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!
When being introduced, stand up to
shake hands
Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front
Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front
2. Bluff
Introduction Uh-Ohs!
If you forget
someone’s name you
have three options:
1. Be up-front
2. Bluff
3. Cheat
When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
   extend your hand and
   stand if necessary
When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
   extend your hand and
   stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
   extend your hand and
   stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
   extend your hand and
   stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting
When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
   extend your hand and
   stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting
5. Converse
When You Are Being Introduced

AND . . . if the person
introducing YOU has
forgotten your name --
HELP them out! by
introducing yourself.
They will really
appreciate the gesture.
When You Are Being Introduced

AND . . . if the person you
are with SHOULD
introduce you and does
not, it is OK to say “I don’t
believe we have met.”
When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!
When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!

Technique
When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!

Technique

Use a medium grip; not too loose &
not too tight
When Shaking Hands
Make the first move!

Technique

Use a medium grip; not too loose &
not too tight

Make EYE CONTACT!!
Modern
Girls & Guys
    Know:
Modern
Girls & Guys
    Know:      “Those who are
               confident and assertive
               make the best first
               impressions!”
Introduce
 Yourself!!
Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
Small Talk
Make the first move!
Make the first move!

Plan a conversation starter
Make the first move!

Plan a conversation starter

Ask Open-Ended questions
Make the first move!

Plan a conversation starter

Ask Open-Ended questions

Listen!
Make the first move!

Plan a conversation starter

Ask Open-Ended questions

Listen!

Share and Share Alike
Make the first move!

Plan a conversation starter

Ask Open-Ended questions

Listen!

Share and Share Alike

Remember a person’s favorite topic
is: Themselves
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)

One-Upmanship
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)

One-Upmanship

Nosy Neighbor
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)

One-Upmanship

Nosy Neighbor

Over-Discloser
Conversation Killers
“It’s all about me”

A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)

One-Upmanship

Nosy Neighbor

Over-Discloser

Eddie the Expert
Oh my! What colorful language!
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             r lo v          SHOOT
                      i n’
                                 arnit
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Profanity Police
Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
 1. Public spaces are not the place for
    a potty mouth
Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
 1. Public spaces are not the place for
    a potty mouth
 2. People are listening
Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
 1. Public spaces are not the place for
    a potty mouth
 2. People are listening
 3. #$%@% shows very little
    imagination
Beyond Profanity
Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
   are also bad form
Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
   are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
   to use as an insult. Period.
Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
   are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
   to use as an insult. Period.
4. Gender specific insults are a bad idea. “Bitch”,
   “Slut”, “Whore”, etc. serve no purpose.
Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
Dress
Appropriately
Dress like . . .




                   . . . a Lady
Too Sexy
Too Sloppy
Too Sullen
Too Much Skin
Too Tattooed
Too Trendy
Dress like . . .




             . . . a Gentleman
Too Saggy
Too Shaggy
Modern
Girls & Guys
    Know:
Modern       “Hygiene &
Girls & Guys
    Know:      Personal Grooming
               are just as important
               as how you are
               dressed”
Modern       “Making a good
Girls & Guys   impression counts
    Know:
               ALL the time -
               from presentations to
               job interviews to on
               the job”
Practice (                      UN)Common Courtesies
                                Thank you
                                SO much!     T his is the
Oh no,
         you first                          perfect gift! I
                  ! I insis
                           t!                   love it!
Oh! You shouldn’t have!
Giving Gifts
Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
 1. The Nature of the Relationship
Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
 1. The Nature of the Relationship
 2. Timing
Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
 1. The Nature of the Relationship
 2. Timing
 3. The Magnitude of the gift should
    be in proportion to the relationship
Receiving Gifts
Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
     wo
    Greater Pleasure!
Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
     wo
    Greater Pleasure!
 2. Never ask how much something
    cost
Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
     wo
    Greater Pleasure!
 2. Never ask how much something
    cost
 3. Tailor your “Thank You” to the
    occasion and the giver
“Thank you!”
“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:

 1. Write it immediately
“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:

 1. Write it immediately
 2. Write it by hand
“Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:

 1. Write it immediately
 2. Write it by hand
 3. Mention the gift by name and
    how you intend to use it
Thank you for
  flying the
friendly skies!
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
 When Boarding have EVERYTHING
 ready to go. If you are using the
 overhead bins, be courteous!
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!

  Don’t bring stinky food on to the
  plane to eat
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  Once in flight, if you want to recline
  your seat -- do it slowly
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  Do not kick, knee, or tap the seat in
  front of you
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  Get out of your seat only if
  necessary. “Excuse me,” is a nice
  touch when moving past people
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  On an international flight, be
  respectful of those who want to
  sleep
Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  Unless you are delivering an organ via
  airplane, wait until you depart to use
  your cell phone
Let’s go out to
 the movies!
Let’s go out to the movie!
Let’s go out to the movie!
  Don’t put your feet on the back of
  the chair in front of you
Let’s go out to the movie!
  Likewise, don’t kick the seat in
  front of you
Let’s go out to the movie!
When traveling in a “pack” don’t
enter and exit the theater 20 times,
move seats in the theater, visit with
another “pack” two rows up, etc.
Let’s go out to the movie!
 Be as quiet as possible with your
 treats, especially opening packages
 of candy. AND . . . take your trash
 with you after the movie!
Let’s go out to the movie!
 Do not TALK or TEXT on your phone
 during the movie
                           HA !
                          W T
                     TTER
             NO MA
                           PER
                  N ONE!       IOD
                                   !
                    I AM SERIOUS!
Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
Always a courteous host
The Hostess with the Mostest
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
 1. Use discretion when extending an
    invitation
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
 1. Use discretion when extending an
    invitation
 2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
    diva behavior allowed!
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
 1. Use discretion when extending an
    invitation
 2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
    diva behavior allowed!
 3. Introduce everyone to each other
    & help people make connections
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
 4. Circulate! Spend time with all
    your guests
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
 4. Circulate! Spend time with all
    your guests
 5. Don’t take advantage of your
    parents’ hospitality
The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
 4. Circulate! Spend time with all
    your guests
 5. Don’t take advantage of your
    parents’ hospitality
 6. No DRAMA!
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. RSVP
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. RSVP
  2. Be Discreet
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. RSVP
  2. Be Discreet
  3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. RSVP
  2. Be Discreet
  3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
  4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
     bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
     Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. RSVP
  2. Be Discreet
  3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
  4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
     bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
     Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
  5. NEVER bring people who were not
     invited
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
     intention of staying for.
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
     intention of staying for.
  7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
     intention of staying for.
  7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
  8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
     the end
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
     intention of staying for.
  7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
  8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
     the end
  9. Don’t linger. When the Party is
     over--Go Home!
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
      cabinets. Don’t go and explore
      without permission
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
      cabinets. Don’t go and explore
      without permission
  11. Thank the host for their generosity
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
      cabinets. Don’t go and explore
      without permission
  11. Thank the host for their generosity
  12. Return the favor at a future date by
      being a host yourself. It is not cool to
      always be the guest and never be the
      host!
Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
The Overnight
   Guest
When guests come to stay overnight...
When guests come to stay overnight...
 A good host:
When guests come to stay overnight...
 A good host:
  1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
     shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
When guests come to stay overnight...
 A good host:
  1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
     shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
  2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
     before your guest arrive to find out
     their expectations & plans
When guests come to stay overnight...
 A good host:
  1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
     shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
  2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
     before your guest arrive to find out
     their expectations & plans
  3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
     order
When guests come to stay overnight...
 A good host:
  1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
     shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
  2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
     before your guest arrive to find out
     their expectations & plans
  3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
     order
  4. Offers a beautifully appointed home. A
     messy room is not inviting
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
  3. Do what your host does -- follow their
     lead
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
  3. Do what your host does -- follow their
     lead
  4. Be nice to everyone
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
  3. Do what your host does -- follow their
     lead
  4. Be nice to everyone
  5. Don’t go snooping
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
  3. Do what your host does -- follow their
     lead
  4. Be nice to everyone
  5. Don’t go snooping
  6. Make the bed before leaving
The Guest who Gets Invited Back
 Good Guests know the rules:
  1. Bring what you need
  2. Take what you bring
  3. Do what your host does -- follow their
     lead
  4. Be nice to everyone
  5. Don’t go snooping
  6. Make the bed before leaving
  7. Don’t overstay your welcome
Modern
Girls & Guys
    Know:
Modern       “Common Courtesies
Girls & Guys
    Know:      like please, thank
               you, you’re welcome,
               yes maam, & yes sir
               are important, too!”
She is a Modern Girl &
          He is a Modern Guy


              Call me!
                         I ’ll pick you
OMG!
       LOL!                   up at 7
Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
Technology
When Emailing
When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care
When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care
Be careful who you reply to!
On the Phone
On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind
On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind
It’s very rude to take a call when you
are with others; let it go to voicemail
On Facebook
On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics
On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics
Be careful tagging people in your
pictures
Modern
Girls & Guys
    Know:
Modern       “The way you present
Girls & Guys
    Know:      yourself ‘online’ or
               over the phone is just
               as important as who
               you are face to face.”
Boy Meets Girl




Girl Meets Boy
First Date, Second Date....
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 1. When asking for a date the best way is
    face to face. Next is by phone. But
    Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
    a request for a date.
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 1. When asking for a date the best way is
    face to face. Next is by phone. But
    Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
    a request for a date.
 2. If you are picking up your date, come to
    the door. AND meet the parents
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 1. When asking for a date the best way is
    face to face. Next is by phone. But
    Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
    a request for a date.
 2. If you are picking up your date, come to
    the door. AND meet the parents
 3. Have a plan in place. “What do you
    want to do?” is not a plan. If you asked
    for a date, you need to have a date
    planned.
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 4. Don’t move too fast
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 4. Don’t move too fast
 5. Read the other person’s signals
    throughout the date
First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
 4. Don’t move too fast
 5. Read the other person’s signals
    throughout the date
 6. When hanging out at each other’s
    home, be helpful!
Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!

2. Don’t discuss past relationships
Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!

2. Don’t discuss past relationships

3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
  complain!
Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!

2. Don’t discuss past relationships

3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
  complain!

4. If you are with other people, don’t ignore
  him
Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
   Words: Grooming and Hygiene
Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
   Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
   is not going to cut it.
Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
   Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
   is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
   date. Not just on the first date.
Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
   Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
   is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
   date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
    ell
Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
   Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
   is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
   date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
    ell
5. Don’t rush through the meal. It isn’t a
   race
Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
   don’t ignore her!
Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
   don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
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Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
   don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
    alk!
   Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
   yours
Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
   don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
    alk!
   Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
   yours
9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
   YOUR DATE
Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
   don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
    alk!
   Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
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9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
   YOUR DATE
10. Make sure you have enough gas in your
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Modern
Girls & Guys
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Modern
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After the date...
After the date...
Now what?
After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
   or a relationship, be honest!
After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
   or a relationship, be honest!
4. Call but don’t STALK. STALKING is bad
   manners.
The Big Break Up
The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face

 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face

 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
 3. Don’t advertise on FB
The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face

 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
 3. Don’t advertise on FB
 4. Don’t start engaging in such bad
    behavior that you force the other
    person to break up first. Don’t be a
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Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy

  • 1. “She must not swing her arms as though they were dangling ropes; she must not switch herself this way and that; she must not shout; and she must not, while wearing her bridal veil, smoke a cigarette”
  • 2. The Arizona Daily Star's headline of March 19, 2001, confirms it: "Stressed-out American society gives birth to rage of all kinds." Researchers and other experts find we're "an enraged society," they define "toxic" rage, and point out that "Irrational behavior by kids at school, by sports stars, by mom and dad, by people at work, has become the norm. Basically, we've created a breeding ground for violence."
  • 3. An ABCNEWS/World News Tonight Poll confirms that most of us (85%) feel that a simple “thank you” and “please” would make the world a better place. And more than 8 out of 10 Americans “say the failure of parents to instruct their children in good behavior is a ‘major cause’ of bad manners” -- adults with kids are “as likely as those without to say that bad parenting is a major cause of bad manners."
  • 4. Is there such a thing as childhood innocence? The Parents Television Council sees a lot more foul language and violence aimed at kids during the so-called family hour than most parents realize. Coarse language is up 78% since 1999 -- some 10 million kids on average watch TV from 8 - 9 PM.
  • 5. Cuss is a four-letter word. These days, swearing in public is pervasive and foul language has become a habit for many -- with role models like sports stars, rock stars, celebrities, and cartoon characters leading the cultural decline. But some are swearing off swearing according to ABCNEWS.com.
  • 6. “The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise.” Unknown
  • 7. "When we talk about table manners, we're not necessarily talking about which fork to choose. We're talking … the manner in which you walk in, how you order your food, how you proceed through the meal, the conversation that you make at the table, whether it's appropriate or not … all those things tell people everything about you."
  • 8. In a recent national poll by market research group Synovate, 68% of Americans claimed to observe poor cell phone etiquette at least once per day. Eighteen percent said they ran into poor e-mail etiquette. The study noted that the Americans showed the poorest etiquette when using the very devices they rely on the most (52% said they would “die” if their phones and e-mails were taken away). -- Forbes
  • 9. M ODERN The Girls’ Guide to Etiquette
  • 10. M ODERN The Girls’ Guide to Etiquette (And Guys, too!)
  • 11. So, what does it mean to be modern?
  • 13. Preach It v. Teach It
  • 14. !She always makes a GREAT impression
  • 15. !She always makes a GREAT impression !She practices (UN)Common Courtesies
  • 16. !She always makes a GREAT impression !She practices (UN)Common Courtesies !She is a Modern Girl & He is a Modern Guy
  • 17. Make a Great Impression Don’t forget to Smile! You o nly get one Stand U chance to make a p Straig ht! fir st impression!
  • 19. First Impressions Are About: C onfidence
  • 20. First Impressions Are About: Credibility C onfidence
  • 21. First Impressions Are About: Credibility Pre C onf idence paration
  • 22. HELLO my name is Introductions
  • 23. When someone joins the group, introduce them!
  • 24. When someone joins the group, introduce them! When introducing more than one person, introduce from most important to least important
  • 25. When someone joins the group, introduce them! When introducing more than one person, introduce from most important to least important If someone forgets you, introduce yourself!
  • 26. When someone joins the group, introduce them! When introducing more than one person, introduce from most important to least important If someone forgets you, introduce yourself! When being introduced, stand up to shake hands
  • 27. Introduction Uh-Ohs! If you forget someone’s name you have three options:
  • 28. Introduction Uh-Ohs! If you forget someone’s name you have three options: 1. Be up-front
  • 29. Introduction Uh-Ohs! If you forget someone’s name you have three options: 1. Be up-front 2. Bluff
  • 30. Introduction Uh-Ohs! If you forget someone’s name you have three options: 1. Be up-front 2. Bluff 3. Cheat
  • 31. When You Are Being Introduced 1. Assume the position-- extend your hand and stand if necessary
  • 32. When You Are Being Introduced 1. Assume the position-- extend your hand and stand if necessary 2. Make eye contact
  • 33. When You Are Being Introduced 1. Assume the position-- extend your hand and stand if necessary 2. Make eye contact 3. Shake their hand
  • 34. When You Are Being Introduced 1. Assume the position-- extend your hand and stand if necessary 2. Make eye contact 3. Shake their hand 4. Express a Greeting
  • 35. When You Are Being Introduced 1. Assume the position-- extend your hand and stand if necessary 2. Make eye contact 3. Shake their hand 4. Express a Greeting 5. Converse
  • 36. When You Are Being Introduced AND . . . if the person introducing YOU has forgotten your name -- HELP them out! by introducing yourself. They will really appreciate the gesture.
  • 37. When You Are Being Introduced AND . . . if the person you are with SHOULD introduce you and does not, it is OK to say “I don’t believe we have met.”
  • 38. When Shaking Hands Make the first move!
  • 39. When Shaking Hands Make the first move! Technique
  • 40. When Shaking Hands Make the first move! Technique Use a medium grip; not too loose & not too tight
  • 41. When Shaking Hands Make the first move! Technique Use a medium grip; not too loose & not too tight Make EYE CONTACT!!
  • 43. Modern Girls & Guys Know: “Those who are confident and assertive make the best first impressions!”
  • 47. Make the first move!
  • 48. Make the first move! Plan a conversation starter
  • 49. Make the first move! Plan a conversation starter Ask Open-Ended questions
  • 50. Make the first move! Plan a conversation starter Ask Open-Ended questions Listen!
  • 51. Make the first move! Plan a conversation starter Ask Open-Ended questions Listen! Share and Share Alike
  • 52. Make the first move! Plan a conversation starter Ask Open-Ended questions Listen! Share and Share Alike Remember a person’s favorite topic is: Themselves
  • 54. Conversation Killers “It’s all about me” A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not)
  • 55. Conversation Killers “It’s all about me” A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not) One-Upmanship
  • 56. Conversation Killers “It’s all about me” A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not) One-Upmanship Nosy Neighbor
  • 57. Conversation Killers “It’s all about me” A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not) One-Upmanship Nosy Neighbor Over-Discloser
  • 58. Conversation Killers “It’s all about me” A.D.D. (Diagnosed or not) One-Upmanship Nosy Neighbor Over-Discloser Eddie the Expert
  • 59. Oh my! What colorful language! mo the r lo v SHOOT i n’ arnit fudge d ob EFFI is hk ab N’ sh
  • 61. Profanity Police Your language says a lot about you. Remember:
  • 62. Profanity Police Your language says a lot about you. Remember: 1. Public spaces are not the place for a potty mouth
  • 63. Profanity Police Your language says a lot about you. Remember: 1. Public spaces are not the place for a potty mouth 2. People are listening
  • 64. Profanity Police Your language says a lot about you. Remember: 1. Public spaces are not the place for a potty mouth 2. People are listening 3. #$%@% shows very little imagination
  • 66. Beyond Profanity Four Letter words are not the only areas to consider:
  • 67. Beyond Profanity Four Letter words are not the only areas to consider: 1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
  • 68. Beyond Profanity Four Letter words are not the only areas to consider: 1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest 2. Words that target the disabled like “retard” are also bad form
  • 69. Beyond Profanity Four Letter words are not the only areas to consider: 1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest 2. Words that target the disabled like “retard” are also bad form 3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool to use as an insult. Period.
  • 70. Beyond Profanity Four Letter words are not the only areas to consider: 1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest 2. Words that target the disabled like “retard” are also bad form 3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool to use as an insult. Period. 4. Gender specific insults are a bad idea. “Bitch”, “Slut”, “Whore”, etc. serve no purpose.
  • 73. Dress like . . . . . . a Lady
  • 80. Dress like . . . . . . a Gentleman
  • 84. Modern “Hygiene & Girls & Guys Know: Personal Grooming are just as important as how you are dressed”
  • 85. Modern “Making a good Girls & Guys impression counts Know: ALL the time - from presentations to job interviews to on the job”
  • 86. Practice ( UN)Common Courtesies Thank you SO much! T his is the Oh no, you first perfect gift! I ! I insis t! love it!
  • 89. Giving Gifts When giving gifts please remember:
  • 90. Giving Gifts When giving gifts please remember: 1. The Nature of the Relationship
  • 91. Giving Gifts When giving gifts please remember: 1. The Nature of the Relationship 2. Timing
  • 92. Giving Gifts When giving gifts please remember: 1. The Nature of the Relationship 2. Timing 3. The Magnitude of the gift should be in proportion to the relationship
  • 94. Receiving Gifts Etiquette is just as important when you receive!
  • 95. Receiving Gifts Etiquette is just as important when you receive! 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/ wo Greater Pleasure!
  • 96. Receiving Gifts Etiquette is just as important when you receive! 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/ wo Greater Pleasure! 2. Never ask how much something cost
  • 97. Receiving Gifts Etiquette is just as important when you receive! 1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/ wo Greater Pleasure! 2. Never ask how much something cost 3. Tailor your “Thank You” to the occasion and the giver
  • 99. “Thank you!” Never forget to say thank you!
  • 100. “Thank you!” Never forget to say thank you! If you are sending a card:
  • 101. “Thank you!” Never forget to say thank you! If you are sending a card: 1. Write it immediately
  • 102. “Thank you!” Never forget to say thank you! If you are sending a card: 1. Write it immediately 2. Write it by hand
  • 103. “Thank you!” Never forget to say thank you! If you are sending a card: 1. Write it immediately 2. Write it by hand 3. Mention the gift by name and how you intend to use it
  • 104. Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  • 105. Thank you for flying the friendly skies!
  • 106. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! When Boarding have EVERYTHING ready to go. If you are using the overhead bins, be courteous!
  • 107. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! Don’t bring stinky food on to the plane to eat
  • 108. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! Once in flight, if you want to recline your seat -- do it slowly
  • 109. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! Do not kick, knee, or tap the seat in front of you
  • 110. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! Get out of your seat only if necessary. “Excuse me,” is a nice touch when moving past people
  • 111. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! On an international flight, be respectful of those who want to sleep
  • 112. Thank you for flying the friendly skies! Unless you are delivering an organ via airplane, wait until you depart to use your cell phone
  • 113. Let’s go out to the movies!
  • 114. Let’s go out to the movie!
  • 115. Let’s go out to the movie! Don’t put your feet on the back of the chair in front of you
  • 116. Let’s go out to the movie! Likewise, don’t kick the seat in front of you
  • 117. Let’s go out to the movie! When traveling in a “pack” don’t enter and exit the theater 20 times, move seats in the theater, visit with another “pack” two rows up, etc.
  • 118. Let’s go out to the movie! Be as quiet as possible with your treats, especially opening packages of candy. AND . . . take your trash with you after the movie!
  • 119. Let’s go out to the movie! Do not TALK or TEXT on your phone during the movie HA ! W T TTER NO MA PER N ONE! IOD ! I AM SERIOUS!
  • 122. The Hostess with the Mostest
  • 123. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home, remember:
  • 124. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home, remember: 1. Use discretion when extending an invitation
  • 125. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home, remember: 1. Use discretion when extending an invitation 2. Be ready when guests arrive. No diva behavior allowed!
  • 126. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home, remember: 1. Use discretion when extending an invitation 2. Be ready when guests arrive. No diva behavior allowed! 3. Introduce everyone to each other & help people make connections
  • 127. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home remember 4. Circulate! Spend time with all your guests
  • 128. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home remember 4. Circulate! Spend time with all your guests 5. Don’t take advantage of your parents’ hospitality
  • 129. The Hostess with the Mostest When hosting anyone in your home remember 4. Circulate! Spend time with all your guests 5. Don’t take advantage of your parents’ hospitality 6. No DRAMA!
  • 130. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
  • 131. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules:
  • 132. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. RSVP
  • 133. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. RSVP 2. Be Discreet
  • 134. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. RSVP 2. Be Discreet 3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
  • 135. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. RSVP 2. Be Discreet 3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY 4. Ask your host and hostess if you can bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs? Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
  • 136. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. RSVP 2. Be Discreet 3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY 4. Ask your host and hostess if you can bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs? Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!) 5. NEVER bring people who were not invited
  • 137. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 6. Don’t show up to a party you have no intention of staying for.
  • 138. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 6. Don’t show up to a party you have no intention of staying for. 7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
  • 139. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 6. Don’t show up to a party you have no intention of staying for. 7. Dress appropriately for the occasion 8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until the end
  • 140. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 6. Don’t show up to a party you have no intention of staying for. 7. Dress appropriately for the occasion 8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until the end 9. Don’t linger. When the Party is over--Go Home!
  • 141. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine cabinets. Don’t go and explore without permission
  • 142. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine cabinets. Don’t go and explore without permission 11. Thank the host for their generosity
  • 143. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine cabinets. Don’t go and explore without permission 11. Thank the host for their generosity 12. Return the favor at a future date by being a host yourself. It is not cool to always be the guest and never be the host!
  • 145. The Overnight Guest
  • 146. When guests come to stay overnight...
  • 147. When guests come to stay overnight... A good host:
  • 148. When guests come to stay overnight... A good host: 1. Has essentials stocked and ready: shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
  • 149. When guests come to stay overnight... A good host: 1. Has essentials stocked and ready: shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste 2. Has a plan up front. Communicate before your guest arrive to find out their expectations & plans
  • 150. When guests come to stay overnight... A good host: 1. Has essentials stocked and ready: shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste 2. Has a plan up front. Communicate before your guest arrive to find out their expectations & plans 3. Has their sleeping arrangements in order
  • 151. When guests come to stay overnight... A good host: 1. Has essentials stocked and ready: shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste 2. Has a plan up front. Communicate before your guest arrive to find out their expectations & plans 3. Has their sleeping arrangements in order 4. Offers a beautifully appointed home. A messy room is not inviting
  • 152. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
  • 153. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules:
  • 154. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need
  • 155. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring
  • 156. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring 3. Do what your host does -- follow their lead
  • 157. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring 3. Do what your host does -- follow their lead 4. Be nice to everyone
  • 158. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring 3. Do what your host does -- follow their lead 4. Be nice to everyone 5. Don’t go snooping
  • 159. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring 3. Do what your host does -- follow their lead 4. Be nice to everyone 5. Don’t go snooping 6. Make the bed before leaving
  • 160. The Guest who Gets Invited Back Good Guests know the rules: 1. Bring what you need 2. Take what you bring 3. Do what your host does -- follow their lead 4. Be nice to everyone 5. Don’t go snooping 6. Make the bed before leaving 7. Don’t overstay your welcome
  • 162. Modern “Common Courtesies Girls & Guys Know: like please, thank you, you’re welcome, yes maam, & yes sir are important, too!”
  • 163. She is a Modern Girl & He is a Modern Guy Call me! I ’ll pick you OMG! LOL! up at 7
  • 167. When Emailing OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang sparingly
  • 168. When Emailing OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang sparingly DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
  • 169. When Emailing OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang sparingly DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!! Carefully edit and remember that emails are always open to interpretation
  • 170. When Emailing OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang sparingly DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!! Carefully edit and remember that emails are always open to interpretation Choose humor and sarcasm with care
  • 171. When Emailing OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang sparingly DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!! Carefully edit and remember that emails are always open to interpretation Choose humor and sarcasm with care Be careful who you reply to!
  • 173. On the Phone Put your phone on silent mode during class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
  • 174. On the Phone Put your phone on silent mode during class, church, dates, the movies, etc. Be aware of your speaking volume
  • 175. On the Phone Put your phone on silent mode during class, church, dates, the movies, etc. Be aware of your speaking volume Avoid ring tones that are annoying or inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
  • 176. On the Phone Put your phone on silent mode during class, church, dates, the movies, etc. Be aware of your speaking volume Avoid ring tones that are annoying or inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?) Do not text during class, church, a date, movie or public performance of any kind
  • 177. On the Phone Put your phone on silent mode during class, church, dates, the movies, etc. Be aware of your speaking volume Avoid ring tones that are annoying or inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?) Do not text during class, church, a date, movie or public performance of any kind It’s very rude to take a call when you are with others; let it go to voicemail
  • 179. On Facebook Set boundaries for checking your facebook or other accounts
  • 180. On Facebook Set boundaries for checking your facebook or other accounts Do not use Facebook to air problems you have with other people
  • 181. On Facebook Set boundaries for checking your facebook or other accounts Do not use Facebook to air problems you have with other people Be careful what you post
  • 182. On Facebook Set boundaries for checking your facebook or other accounts Do not use Facebook to air problems you have with other people Be careful what you post Don’t use a public forum for sensitive topics
  • 183. On Facebook Set boundaries for checking your facebook or other accounts Do not use Facebook to air problems you have with other people Be careful what you post Don’t use a public forum for sensitive topics Be careful tagging people in your pictures
  • 185. Modern “The way you present Girls & Guys Know: yourself ‘online’ or over the phone is just as important as who you are face to face.”
  • 186. Boy Meets Girl Girl Meets Boy
  • 187. First Date, Second Date....
  • 188. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating:
  • 189. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 1. When asking for a date the best way is face to face. Next is by phone. But Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT a request for a date.
  • 190. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 1. When asking for a date the best way is face to face. Next is by phone. But Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT a request for a date. 2. If you are picking up your date, come to the door. AND meet the parents
  • 191. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 1. When asking for a date the best way is face to face. Next is by phone. But Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT a request for a date. 2. If you are picking up your date, come to the door. AND meet the parents 3. Have a plan in place. “What do you want to do?” is not a plan. If you asked for a date, you need to have a date planned.
  • 192. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 4. Don’t move too fast
  • 193. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 4. Don’t move too fast 5. Read the other person’s signals throughout the date
  • 194. First Date, Second Date.... The basics of dating: 4. Don’t move too fast 5. Read the other person’s signals throughout the date 6. When hanging out at each other’s home, be helpful!
  • 195. Girls: 1. No personal grooming during the date!
  • 196. Girls: 1. No personal grooming during the date! 2. Don’t discuss past relationships
  • 197. Girls: 1. No personal grooming during the date! 2. Don’t discuss past relationships 3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT complain!
  • 198. Girls: 1. No personal grooming during the date! 2. Don’t discuss past relationships 3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT complain! 4. If you are with other people, don’t ignore him
  • 199. Guys: 1. Getting ready for your big date? Two Words: Grooming and Hygiene
  • 200. Guys: 1. Getting ready for your big date? Two Words: Grooming and Hygiene 2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?” is not going to cut it.
  • 201. Guys: 1. Getting ready for your big date? Two Words: Grooming and Hygiene 2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?” is not going to cut it. 3. Yes, you should still open the door for your date. Not just on the first date.
  • 202. Guys: 1. Getting ready for your big date? Two Words: Grooming and Hygiene 2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?” is not going to cut it. 3. Yes, you should still open the door for your date. Not just on the first date. 4. T your date she looks nice! ell
  • 203. Guys: 1. Getting ready for your big date? Two Words: Grooming and Hygiene 2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?” is not going to cut it. 3. Yes, you should still open the door for your date. Not just on the first date. 4. T your date she looks nice! ell 5. Don’t rush through the meal. It isn’t a race
  • 204. Guys: 6. If you are going to be around other people, don’t ignore her!
  • 205. Guys: 6. If you are going to be around other people, don’t ignore her! 7. T But don’t dominate the conversation. alk! Ask about HER too.
  • 206. Guys: 6. If you are going to be around other people, don’t ignore her! 7. T But don’t dominate the conversation. alk! Ask about HER too. 8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at yours
  • 207. Guys: 6. If you are going to be around other people, don’t ignore her! 7. T But don’t dominate the conversation. alk! Ask about HER too. 8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at yours 9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF YOUR DATE
  • 208. Guys: 6. If you are going to be around other people, don’t ignore her! 7. T But don’t dominate the conversation. alk! Ask about HER too. 8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at yours 9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF YOUR DATE 10. Make sure you have enough gas in your car!
  • 210. Modern Girls & Guys “Lots of dates take Know: place over a meal. Good manners are beyond important when eating.”
  • 213. After the date... Now what? 1. Don’t kiss and tell
  • 214. After the date... Now what? 1. Don’t kiss and tell 2. If you promise to call, then call
  • 215. After the date... Now what? 1. Don’t kiss and tell 2. If you promise to call, then call 3. If you aren’t interested in a second date or a relationship, be honest!
  • 216. After the date... Now what? 1. Don’t kiss and tell 2. If you promise to call, then call 3. If you aren’t interested in a second date or a relationship, be honest! 4. Call but don’t STALK. STALKING is bad manners.
  • 218. The Big Break Up How do you do it right?
  • 219. The Big Break Up How do you do it right? 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
  • 220. The Big Break Up How do you do it right? 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
  • 221. The Big Break Up How do you do it right? 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame 3. Don’t advertise on FB
  • 222. The Big Break Up How do you do it right? 1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face 2. Don’t accuse or lay blame 3. Don’t advertise on FB 4. Don’t start engaging in such bad behavior that you force the other person to break up first. Don’t be a coward!
  • 223. What is a modern day gentleman?
  • 224. Alw ays o help ffers
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  • 226. Alw ays o help ffers eye kes with Ma act ont hers c t o mum ly; sn’t lear ble Doe aks C Spe
  • 227. Alw ays o help ffers Tak es o cap ff h eye in pu is kes with Ma act blic ont hers c t o mum ly; sn’t lear ble Doe aks C Spe
  • 228. Alw ges ays led o help ffers know ults Ac Ad Tak es o cap ff h eye in pu is kes with Ma act blic ont hers c t o mum ly; sn’t lear ble Doe aks C Spe
  • 229. Alw ges ays led o help ffers know ults Ac Ad Tak es o cap ff h eye in pu is kes with Ma act blic ont hers c t o Doe foo sn’t mum ly; d i ta sn’t lear ble n h lk Doe aks C is m with out Spe h
  • 230. What is a modern day lady?
  • 231. She res has s pec elf t
  • 232. She res has s pec elf t has es She grac so cial
  • 233. She res has s pec elf t has es She grac so cial con s “I” ance say ear fide m nt!” app Her
  • 234. She res has s pec elf t She enga ’s able ge o to has es ther s She grac so cial con s “I” ance say ear fide m nt!” app Her
  • 235. ets She org rs r f the res has s eve at o er N h tt pec elf t ma t She enga ’s able ge o to has es ther s She grac so cial con s “I” ance say ear fide m nt!” app Her
  • 236. ets She org rs r f the res has s eve at o er N h tt pec elf t ma t She enga ’s able ge o to has es ther s She grac so cial Sh a wit res h con s “I” ance hou er say ear t o op fide m ffe inio nt!” app ndi ns ng Her
  • 237. So what is modern? “T oday’s modern day girl and guy are not defined by celebrity or the changing winds of fashion. They know that a balance of style and substance are essential. The modern day girl and guy knows who they are and that they are connected to the bigger picture. They are always considerate of others”