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Etiquette For The Modern Girl & Guy
1. “She must not swing her arms as
though they were dangling ropes;
she must not switch herself this
way and that; she must not shout;
and she must not, while wearing
her bridal veil, smoke a cigarette”
2. The Arizona Daily Star's headline of March
19, 2001, confirms it: "Stressed-out
American society gives birth to rage of all
kinds." Researchers and other experts find
we're "an enraged society," they define "toxic"
rage, and point out that "Irrational behavior
by kids at school, by sports stars, by mom
and dad, by people at work, has become the
norm. Basically, we've created a breeding
ground for violence."
3. An ABCNEWS/World News Tonight
Poll confirms that most of us (85%) feel
that a simple “thank you” and “please”
would make the world a better place.
And more than 8 out of 10 Americans
“say the failure of parents to instruct
their children in good behavior is a
‘major cause’ of bad manners” -- adults
with kids are “as likely as those without
to say that bad parenting is a major
cause of bad manners."
4. Is there such a thing as
childhood innocence? The
Parents Television Council
sees a lot more foul
language and violence aimed at
kids during the so-called family
hour than most parents
realize. Coarse language is up
78% since 1999 -- some 10
million kids on average watch
TV from 8 - 9 PM.
5. Cuss is a four-letter word.
These days, swearing in public
is pervasive and foul language
has become a habit for many --
with role models like sports
stars, rock stars, celebrities,
and cartoon characters leading
the cultural decline. But some
are swearing off swearing
according to ABCNEWS.com.
6. “The children now love luxury.
They have bad manners,
contempt for authority; they
show disrespect for elders and
love chatter in place of
exercise.” Unknown
7. "When we talk about table manners,
we're not necessarily talking about
which fork to choose. We're talking
… the manner in which you walk in,
how you order your food, how you
proceed through the meal, the
conversation that you make at the
table, whether it's appropriate or not
… all those things tell people
everything about you."
8. In a recent national poll by market
research group Synovate, 68% of
Americans claimed to observe poor cell
phone etiquette at least once per day.
Eighteen percent said they ran into poor
e-mail etiquette. The study noted that the
Americans showed the poorest etiquette
when using the very devices they rely on
the most (52% said they would “die” if
their phones and e-mails were taken
away). -- Forbes
24. When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
25. When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!
26. When someone joins the group,
introduce them!
When introducing more than one
person, introduce from most
important to least important
If someone forgets you, introduce
yourself!
When being introduced, stand up to
shake hands
31. When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
32. When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
33. When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
34. When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting
35. When You Are Being Introduced
1. Assume the position--
extend your hand and
stand if necessary
2. Make eye contact
3. Shake their hand
4. Express a Greeting
5. Converse
36. When You Are Being Introduced
AND . . . if the person
introducing YOU has
forgotten your name --
HELP them out! by
introducing yourself.
They will really
appreciate the gesture.
37. When You Are Being Introduced
AND . . . if the person you
are with SHOULD
introduce you and does
not, it is OK to say “I don’t
believe we have met.”
49. Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
50. Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!
51. Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!
Share and Share Alike
52. Make the first move!
Plan a conversation starter
Ask Open-Ended questions
Listen!
Share and Share Alike
Remember a person’s favorite topic
is: Themselves
63. Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
1. Public spaces are not the place for
a potty mouth
2. People are listening
64. Profanity Police
Your language says a lot about you.
Remember:
1. Public spaces are not the place for
a potty mouth
2. People are listening
3. #$%@% shows very little
imagination
68. Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form
69. Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
to use as an insult. Period.
70. Beyond Profanity
Four Letter words are not the only
areas to consider:
1. Do not use racial slurs, even in jest
2. Words that target the disabled like “retard”
are also bad form
3. “Faggot”, “Homo”, “Dyke”, “Lesbo”: not cool
to use as an insult. Period.
4. Gender specific insults are a bad idea. “Bitch”,
“Slut”, “Whore”, etc. serve no purpose.
92. Giving Gifts
When giving gifts please remember:
1. The Nature of the Relationship
2. Timing
3. The Magnitude of the gift should
be in proportion to the relationship
95. Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!
96. Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!
2. Never ask how much something
cost
97. Receiving Gifts
Etiquette is just as important when
you receive!
1. T Responses: Great Pleasure/
wo
Greater Pleasure!
2. Never ask how much something
cost
3. Tailor your “Thank You” to the
occasion and the giver
102. “Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
1. Write it immediately
2. Write it by hand
103. “Thank you!”
Never forget to say thank you!
If you are sending a card:
1. Write it immediately
2. Write it by hand
3. Mention the gift by name and
how you intend to use it
115. Let’s go out to the movie!
Don’t put your feet on the back of
the chair in front of you
116. Let’s go out to the movie!
Likewise, don’t kick the seat in
front of you
117. Let’s go out to the movie!
When traveling in a “pack” don’t
enter and exit the theater 20 times,
move seats in the theater, visit with
another “pack” two rows up, etc.
118. Let’s go out to the movie!
Be as quiet as possible with your
treats, especially opening packages
of candy. AND . . . take your trash
with you after the movie!
119. Let’s go out to the movie!
Do not TALK or TEXT on your phone
during the movie
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123. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
124. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation
125. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation
2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
diva behavior allowed!
126. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home,
remember:
1. Use discretion when extending an
invitation
2. Be ready when guests arrive. No
diva behavior allowed!
3. Introduce everyone to each other
& help people make connections
127. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests
128. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests
5. Don’t take advantage of your
parents’ hospitality
129. The Hostess with the Mostest
When hosting anyone in your home
remember
4. Circulate! Spend time with all
your guests
5. Don’t take advantage of your
parents’ hospitality
6. No DRAMA!
131. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
132. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
133. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
134. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
135. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
136. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. RSVP
2. Be Discreet
3. Come on time but DO NOT COME EARLY
4. Ask your host and hostess if you can
bring anything (Alcohol & Drugs?
Um . . .no. Ice/Cups/Soda? Yes!)
5. NEVER bring people who were not
invited
137. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
138. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
139. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
the end
140. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
6. Don’t show up to a party you have no
intention of staying for.
7. Dress appropriately for the occasion
8. Offer to help clean up if you stay until
the end
9. Don’t linger. When the Party is
over--Go Home!
141. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission
142. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission
11. Thank the host for their generosity
143. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
10. Don’t snoop. Stay out of medicine
cabinets. Don’t go and explore
without permission
11. Thank the host for their generosity
12. Return the favor at a future date by
being a host yourself. It is not cool to
always be the guest and never be the
host!
148. When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
149. When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans
150. When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans
3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
order
151. When guests come to stay overnight...
A good host:
1. Has essentials stocked and ready:
shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste
2. Has a plan up front. Communicate
before your guest arrive to find out
their expectations & plans
3. Has their sleeping arrangements in
order
4. Offers a beautifully appointed home. A
messy room is not inviting
153. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
154. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
155. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
156. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
157. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
158. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping
159. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping
6. Make the bed before leaving
160. The Guest who Gets Invited Back
Good Guests know the rules:
1. Bring what you need
2. Take what you bring
3. Do what your host does -- follow their
lead
4. Be nice to everyone
5. Don’t go snooping
6. Make the bed before leaving
7. Don’t overstay your welcome
168. When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
169. When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
170. When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care
171. When Emailing
OMG! Use emoticons and texting slang
sparingly
DO NOT SEND EMAILS IN ALL CAPS!!!!!!!
Carefully edit and remember that
emails are always open to
interpretation
Choose humor and sarcasm with care
Be careful who you reply to!
173. On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
174. On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
175. On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
176. On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind
177. On the Phone
Put your phone on silent mode during
class, church, dates, the movies, etc.
Be aware of your speaking volume
Avoid ring tones that are annoying or
inappropriate (La Cucaracha, anyone?)
Do not text during class, church, a
date, movie or public performance of
any kind
It’s very rude to take a call when you
are with others; let it go to voicemail
180. On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
181. On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
182. On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics
183. On Facebook
Set boundaries for checking your
facebook or other accounts
Do not use Facebook to air problems
you have with other people
Be careful what you post
Don’t use a public forum for sensitive
topics
Be careful tagging people in your
pictures
189. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.
190. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.
2. If you are picking up your date, come to
the door. AND meet the parents
191. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
1. When asking for a date the best way is
face to face. Next is by phone. But
Texting “wanna hang out Friday” is NOT
a request for a date.
2. If you are picking up your date, come to
the door. AND meet the parents
3. Have a plan in place. “What do you
want to do?” is not a plan. If you asked
for a date, you need to have a date
planned.
192. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast
193. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast
5. Read the other person’s signals
throughout the date
194. First Date, Second Date....
The basics of dating:
4. Don’t move too fast
5. Read the other person’s signals
throughout the date
6. When hanging out at each other’s
home, be helpful!
196. Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships
197. Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships
3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
complain!
198. Girls:
1. No personal grooming during the date!
2. Don’t discuss past relationships
3. Be courteous. If he is paying, DO NOT
complain!
4. If you are with other people, don’t ignore
him
200. Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
201. Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.
202. Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
ell
203. Guys:
1. Getting ready for your big date? Two
Words: Grooming and Hygiene
2. Have a Plan! “So what do you want to do?”
is not going to cut it.
3. Yes, you should still open the door for your
date. Not just on the first date.
4. T your date she looks nice!
ell
5. Don’t rush through the meal. It isn’t a
race
204. Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
205. Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
206. Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours
207. Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours
9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
YOUR DATE
208. Guys:
6. If you are going to be around other people,
don’t ignore her!
7. T But don’t dominate the conversation.
alk!
Ask about HER too.
8. Laugh at her jokes just as she will laugh at
yours
9. Above everything be RESPECTFUL OF
YOUR DATE
10. Make sure you have enough gas in your
car!
214. After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
215. After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
or a relationship, be honest!
216. After the date...
Now what?
1. Don’t kiss and tell
2. If you promise to call, then call
3. If you aren’t interested in a second date
or a relationship, be honest!
4. Call but don’t STALK. STALKING is bad
manners.
219. The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
220. The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
221. The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
3. Don’t advertise on FB
222. The Big Break Up
How do you do it right?
1. For goodness sakes, do it face to face
2. Don’t accuse or lay blame
3. Don’t advertise on FB
4. Don’t start engaging in such bad
behavior that you force the other
person to break up first. Don’t be a
coward!
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237. So what is modern?
“T oday’s modern day girl and
guy are not defined by celebrity
or the changing winds of
fashion. They know that a
balance of style and substance
are essential. The modern day
girl and guy knows who they are
and that they are connected to
the bigger picture. They are
always considerate of others”