This book literally saved my sanity! My son had had some medical problems up until about 8 months old, causing him to not sleep well. At around 8 months old he recovered, and, after a bit of work, started sleeping BEAUTIFULLY. Just like I kept hearing he was supposed to sleep. This lasted until he was 9 months old. Then, out of nowhere, the peaceful going to sleep and staying asleep stopped. He would cry, he would scream. He would wake up often in the middle of the night. He became less cooperative and much more clingy. I didn't know what to do. I thought this sudden shift in sleep pattern and behavior was caused by something I had done. The pediatrician was NO help when I explained the problem. Desperate for answers, I began searching the web. After typing in "9 mo old not sleeping," I found the website [...]. This site talked about sleep regressions, explaining that babies' sleep does not progress in a linear fashion; they have sleep setbacks when they hit developmental milestones. The website recommended this book for further information. I ordered it right away. This wonderful, wonderful, book explains that babies go through a variety of developmental milestones; some you can see, and some you can't. Crawling, for example, is a milestone you can see. Understanding patterns, unless you know what to look for, is a milestone your baby will hit that you won't see. When babies hit these milestones, at weeks 5, 8, 12, 19, 26, 37, 46, and 55, their sleep is effected and they tend to become more fussy and clingy. The good/bad news is that you can't really do anything about it, but their behavior and poor sleep is not your fault. It is a natural occurrence in each child's life. This book is broken up into chapters for each week. Each chapter lists the weeks fussy signs, soothing tips, sleeping tips, what you can do to help, what milestone is being reached, and top toys for that wonder week. Parent comments are listed too. While the fussy signs are usually the same, and it would be repetitive to read the book cover to cover, as much of what to expect is the same week to week, this format allows the parent with an older baby to pick up and read the chapter pertaining to his/her baby's age without having to read the entire book the entire way through. I, for example, didn't get this book until my son was 9 months old. Being so terribly sleep deprived, the last thing I needed was to have to read an entire book. Also, it is nice to have a refresher of fussy signs for each week.
This book should be required reading for all pediatricians!
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