How to Make Anyone Fall in Love
with You by Leil Lowndes
A Fascinating Book
Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a
book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil
Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in How to Make
Anyone Fall in Love with You. The sensation of falling in love comes from
a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as
Lowndes calls it, as in Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in
Love), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential
love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes
offers 85 techniques for Hunters and Huntresses to capture their Quarry.
Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact
and compliments--but its presented in a new way and with such detail that
it seems that it cant help but work. Following some of her advice will
have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at
times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play
what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers
some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, Show him

youre smart, but remember--not too smart or Watch your Quarrys
reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions. In all fairness,
Lowndes doesnt play favorites: her advice to men and women can be
equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid
wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and,
who knows, maybe it will make you more appealing, too! --Jenny Brown
Personal Review: How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You by
Leil Lowndes
There is a pathetically small selection of books for those who just want a
regular dating life and aren't focused on either extreme of picking up
random people for shallow sex, or getting married and wanting all kinds of
romance.
This is one of those hard to find books. I know some of the "techniques" as
from all kinds of self-help and psychology, and NLP. But put in relevant
context. Many "techniques" are not so much techniques as focuses or
lessons, or experiments. Such as in Gestalt psychology where you
experiment with actions or cognitions that are ego-alien and potentially
expansive.
She doesn't focus on any one thing as the special technique that will make
it all happen. And it is all not as manipulative as the title sounds. It is more
playing into how people naturally work.
Unlike all those pick-up books where they think people are too dumb to
know when they are being manipulated. I had a friend once who could talk
to anyone and get any woman he wanted. He never used a pick-up line
other than "hi" and did not play specific games. What he had was a
positivity and tact with others and the ability to play along with however the
other person was acting and bring them up.
So a book like this should not be intended to fill your head with fake
actions that you pull out of your pocket at the right time, but a map of how
to begin to learn what works for the person in their given situation.
More specifically about the book, it has tremendously less fluff language
than her other books that seem to be just as collection of boring anecdotes
about her experiences and some description of a "technique" that's hard to
follow, all in cheesy language. This book is much much more structured
and the anecdotes are shorter and seem much more relevant.
I also want to add some of my skepticism toward self-help, in that the
information in this book is very difficult to learn and implement in the
spontaneity of interaction, without some sort of mentor.
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