Book Review
Failing Forward- John C. Maxwell
This book is for the eternal optimist, and those who straddle the fence. Dr. Maxwell explores our defined parameters of what it means to fail, and what it means to be a real success. John Maxwell has used the term REAL, to define the key components of being a success. Those key components are "Relationships, Equipping, Attitude, and Leadership."
In order to change your perspective on what it means to fail you must look at what your perceived definition of failure is and what failure is not. Dr. Maxwell laid out 5 rules for defining failure.
1) You will learn lessons.
2) There are no mistakes-only lessons.
3) A lesson is repeated until it is learned.
4) If you don't learn the easy lessons, they get harder.
5) You'll know you've learned a lesson when your actions change.
John's book is a step by step directional guide one how to look at failure as a teaching lesson and a can become a positive impact on your life. "How do you cultivate optimism, by learning the secret of contentment. If you can learn that, then no matter what happens to you, you can weather the storm and build on the good you find in any situation."
This book is a great guideline for anyone who is or has faced a challenge and the result of that challenge was not the intended results. This book is not the golden book of answers, it does require to the reader to think and apply a certain perspective of self evaluation. This book does very clearly outline for the reader how to shift the borders of their current thinking and evaluation skills, if they are willing to be self aware and to change themselves from within.
The texts lessons can be summed up in the following list of requirements to Fail Forward.
1) Realized there is one major difference between average people and achieving people.
2) Lean a new definition of failure.
3) Remove the "you" from failure.
4) Take action and reduce your fear.
5) Change your response to failure by accepting responsibility.
6) Don't let failure from outside get inside you.
7) Say good-bye to yesterday.
8) Change yourself, and your world changes.
9) Get over yourself and start giving yourself.
10) Find the benefit in every bad experience.
11) If at first you do succeed, try something harder.
12) Learn from a bad experience and make it a good experience.
13) Work on the weakness that weakens you.
14) Understand there's not much difference between failure and success.
15) Get up, get over it, get going.
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