Be the Person You Want to Find:
Relationship and Self-Discovery by
Cheri Huber
A Fun Read
This guide to self-discovery through intimate relationships offers a spiritual
perspective on healing childhood wounds and destructive patterns that are
learned early on and later cause relationship dysfunction in adulthood.
Personal Review: Be the Person You Want to Find: Relationship
and Self-Discovery by Cheri Huber
This is a simple, well written book that explores "Being the Person You
Want to Find" rather than finding a specific person to fill your holes. In
other words, it's primarily about your relationship with the most important
life partner you will ever have... YOURSELF.

If you think about it, you are your only 100% GUARANTEED life partner.
This book is about looking at your beliefs, behavioral patterns and
conditioning in a curious, gentle and open way toward the goal of having a
comfortable relationship with yourself. The unspoken corallary to this
might be and thereby... avoid projecting your stuff on to others and get
involved with the wrong people unconsciously.
This book is indirectly about relationships because by being the person we
want to find, we are most likely to attract healthy people who will treat us
as we treat ourselves. This book also helps us to look at our conditioning
as a whole, which serves our relationship goals by making our
unconscious conditioning more conscious.
I have read a number of Cheri Huber's books and have found them to be
easy to read, very practical and entertaining. She does not overwhelm the
reader with detail, but she provides a lot of useful and practical tools for
those brave enough to do deep inquiry. She focuses more on lived
experience in the moment than in-depth discussion of theory.
All of Cheri Huber's books emphasize the importance of being
compassionate with yourself, looking inward and accepting whatever the
present moment brings. I would say that she emphasizes that HOW you
do something is at least as important as WHAT you are doing. She also
stresses the importance of a daily meditation practice in most of her books,
without being preachy about it. This is good advice for most of us in the
West where many of us don't slow down enough to look inward.
I'm really glad to see that Cheri Huber made it as an author. I saw her
speak in person and found her to be a very warm, sensitive and caring
human being. I also felt she was underrated as an author at the time, but
since then she has become quite popular. I often recommend her books to
people because they have such broad appeal and written from a deep
place of compassion and love.
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