Say “No” sometimes to make your “Yes” stronger
It is been more than five months that I have not updated my blog. It
was something I was searching for an incredible topic so that I could
find something awesome. After a week or so I found more than 5 topics
out of which this is one is incorrigible a topic which is When I started
writing that I got an idea of writing this small post as it is short and
more important. So I will be updating my blog soon with a damn good
theme. For you I am revealing my next blog title “Art of Investing on
self”. I will update my blog soon with “Art of Investing on self “.
I think we are almost always say “yes”; for anything and everything, at
work and home, with friends and enemies and even with unknown
people. We want to please people as much as possible, we want people
to like us, and we want to feel needed not only in the work environment
but also in your family and friends. So when people ask us for a
meeting, we say yes, when they ask if we can help, we say yes, when
they ask us for a coffee/tea and whatever, we say yes … when they say
“Can you do me a favor of….. (Fill in the blanks) we just say … yes
without asking what and why.
Therefore every time we say yes to
something we aren’t really enjoying
it, that we don’t really want to do; we
are investing time in unproductive
thing by saying yes to all. Moreover
we may get into a situation where exploitation happens instead of
utilization. Watch your time and space and try optimize them. We have
only 24 hours a day and even if you sleep for only 6 hours (and I am
sure that, it is not sufficient), more 4-6 hours goes in routine
(commutation, clocking, checking mails, face booking and tea drinking).
So be mind that only 12 hours are left and never make big promises
which you may not like.
Think carefully about how and with whom you want to say yes and No.
However, stop saying yes to things out of guilt. Say “No” to things
which you really don’t desire to do. This will obviously give you more
time and space where you can live happily and comfortably.