Free Bonus: http://artofalpha.com/alpha-path To summarize: 1) Ask a girl out over text to a group event. Have her and her friends meetup with you and your friends. A lot of times it is easier to get a girl to come out in a group than it is one-on-one. Once you see her and build more comfort – you can text her for a one-on-one date. This is especially true of younger women. 2) Always have a plan for the date because women will always ask, what are we going to do? Never reply, “I don't know, what do you want to do?” Having a plan and being a leader is sexy to a women. When you ask her out on a date, make it specific and have a plan. 3) If she can't go out with you that night – no big deal. Text her the next day and let her know that you had an awesome night anyway. Don't ask her out again right away. Build more comfort and attraction before asking her out again. You can learn how to do this... http://artofalpha.com/texting-mindmap-opt

1. How to Ask a Girl Out
Over Text
By: Mike Wynn
Artofalpha.com

2. How Many Times Has This Happened...
Guy: Do you want to go out?
Girl: Where?
Guy: We can go anywhere. What do you like?
Girl: I don't know, I have to get up early tomorrow.
Guy: We can go out for a little while
Girl: Nah, I'll probably just stay in
Guy: OK

3. It is very frustrating...
● She gives you her number
and seems to like you
● But then when you try to get
her to go out with you it
seems like mission
impossible.
● Why is that?
● I will explain...

4. What You Have to Understand...
● Young women are very social and
feel most comfortable hanging out
with their group of friends
● Ever had the feeling like you’re
missing out?
● Same feeling with women. They
would rather hangout with friends on
a Fri/Sat night than go out with a guy
that they don’t know well yet.

5. Invite Her & Her Friends
● Instead of trying to get a one-on-one date,
invite her and her friends to meetup with you
and your friends
● This will make it much easier for her to go on
a date
● The idea is to build comfort and make a
connection… Then...

6. Now is the Time for one-on-one
● Once you meet her friends and become part
of her social circle, she will be much more
comfortable going on a “date”
● If you’re going to a bar/club, going to an
event etc. Simply invite her & her friends to
meetup.
● Build trust/connection. Now mention one-on-one
date

7. Note:
● Sometimes she may not have a big social
circle or a group of friends that she likes to
go out with.
● The first part is more for college aged
women that don’t want to miss out on
having fun with their friends

8. Asking Her Out On A Date
● As a guy you ALWAYS want to be the
leader and make the plans.
● If you ask her, “what do you want to do?” it is
not attractive.
● Have a plan when you ask her out.
● Example: I know a great new sushi
restaurant, let’s meet there at 7pm.

9. Asking Her Out On a Date
● if she says that she doesn’t like sushi or your idea...
no big deal. Mention something else.
● You can ask her what type of things that she likes to
do but ultimately have a plan.
● You can also be funny/flirtatious by being overly
detailed…
● Ex. I’ll pick you up at 9:05 sharp, we’ll get dinner at 9:
25. Then we’ll go to a salsa dance lesson for 10:26
● Women like a detailed, in charge, confident man.

10. Much better to Tell than Ask
● Instead of asking her if she
wants to go out with you, it is
better to…
● Tell her that she is invited
● Ex. Instead of saying, “Do you
want to get sushi with me?”
● Say, “I’m going out to get sushi,
you should come with me.”

11. You living your life = Attractive
● You are going to do fun/cool
things and SHE is invited
along
● You are going to live you life
and have fun either way.
● She will sense that and want
to be a part of it.

12. If she says that she is busy...
● Do not act like it is a big deal
● Continue to build attraction by texting her
about the fun/interesting things that you are
doing in your life.
● Do not ask her out again for a few weeks.
● if you keep building attraction she will
eventually ask you, “what are you doing
tonight?”

13. Build attraction. Ask her out again.
● Text her the next day and tell her how great your
night was despite her not going out
● Ex. “The salsa dance lesson was so fun last night.”
● Ex. “I’m actually glad I didn’t go out last night, I was
able to finish a project I was working on.”
● Point is that it is no big deal. Stay positive
and ask her out again later if she is busy.

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