How to handle and help emotionally sensitive peopleDocument Transcript
How to Handle and Help EmotionallySensitive PeopleDevelop a bond.Without them realizing it, super sensitive people have low self esteem. Before you canmake her aware, you must develop a bond and trust in the relationship. Dont say whatyou dont mean and dont beat around the bush. Its easier to get your message acrossand influence her to improve her attitude when she trusts you.Become an attentive listener.Dont be so indifferent and try to ignore her. Become an attentive listener. Try tounderstand how she sees, thinks and feels. You will gain her respect and alsounderstand her motives.Offer feedbackOffer her feedback on how her attitude and behavior have driven away her friends orfamily members. Tell her what would become of her children when they grow upbecause they look up at her for strength and as a role model and will emulate herbehavior.Avoid being insensitive.Dont instill more self hatred and try to reveal her weakness. She will become defensive.Subtly guide her to react accordingly to make her realize how her attitude has affectedher relationship with other people.