Get Your Ex Back Tonight
- How Would You Like It?
By Ade Adewolu
In every relationship - whether platonic or romantic - there is bound to be a time of
friction. Such situations call for a careful reflection on both parties of the relationship.
This article reflects on what urgent action could be taken to remedy a broken down
relationship. In other words, the focus is how you can get your ex back tonight.
Please note that at the end of the essay, there is a link that explains in greater detail,
strategies and methods to almost always effectively prevent the repeat scenario
The assumption here is that it is a situation where it is very urgent. The reconciliation
efforts would much easily materialise if the following steps are adhered to:
Arrange a meeting with your Ex. Arrange that your scheduled meeting is at a popular
place that you both were regular customers. The advantage of this is to enable you
have a relaxed atmosphere and perhaps more at ease with whichever direction the
discussion is going. This must be a forum for you to just establish the first
opportunity for him/her to know that you are still friends and there are still
opportunities for reconciliation. Unless of course, you are convinced that you are
wrong, it would not make any sense to beg for any forgiveness. All you are doing is
to express the fact that you are still a very good friend of the other person.
Invite his/her friends that you both were very friendly. It only shows that the
relationship is not the end of the world. Apart from such a conduct giving him/her the
impression that you are independent, chances are that such a person would still be
nursing some reservations about the relationship which you should not - having read
It is best to ensure that some of those your common friends invite your Ex to the
informal gathering. You need to be tactful here because of the possible lash back if
he gets to hear he's being planned for. Whatever you do, just ensure that the
information about your working strategy is sealed watertight. Your Ex must not
realise that it is prearranged, otherwise he gets the impression that you are
desperate to get back into the relationship.
While planning the informal meet up, put yourself in a relaxed mood. You must
attend as if you also were invited like everyone else. To act in any other way would
jeopardise the whole essence of your scheming.
Make sure you appear very well dressed. Your choice of dress should make you look
very good and attractive so you are easily noticed by him at the function. Besides,
you must position yourself strategically where he cannot ignore your presence. In
other words, a place that is almost opposite to where he sits would be appropriate if
you can find one. In your chit-chats, be very courteous and polite to everyone
present, especially your Ex. Make sure you are particularly friendly towards him
without being patronising. This is particularly important as you don't want him to have
the impression that you are trying desperately to dump yourself on him by force.
Let your Ex be the one to ask questions. Chances are high he would touch on the
topic of your relationship. If and when that comes up, be willing to accept your faults
and apologise for any wrongs you might have done. Be sincere in your tone and be
ready to forgive your Ex for his/her part if s/he apologizes too. These steps would
automatically lead you to get your Ex back tonight if you diligently and faithfully
In summary, you know your Ex well enough. You were in a relationship and due to
some faults or mishaps, the relationship broke down. It is not unusual that such
things happen in any conjugal relationship. You shared happy moments and the
'unhappy moments' are bound to come. You probably mismanaged it and your Ex
left. Your task is to handle the reconciliation strategy as outlined here and see how
easy it is to get your Ex back tonight. The steps are simple. Anyone can do it. Go
ahead and claim your source of happiness. You deserve true love, everyone does. I
wish you the success you aspire to have. Good luck.
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