HOW TO DATE
A JAPANESE GIRL
by real Japanese girl
@31o5
#BarcampKL version, 4th and 5th of April, 2009

Do you want to date a Japanese girl?

To get one, learn some facts
and tips.

FACTS

There are so many single
Japanese girls in BKK.
Including me :-P

There are so many
Thai/Farang boys got
Japanese girls.
Many of my Japanese girl friends
have Thai/Farang
boyfriend/husband.

Most of single Japanese girls
in Bangkok are there because
they want to be here.
Different from boys, most of
Japanese girls here are local
employees, means they decided to
come to Thailand because they
want to do so.

Once a girl starts loving a
man, she would love
everything about him.
even your beer belly, double-chin,
geeky fashion and everything. So
stop worried about your looks and
stop using it as an excuse.

You CAN get one!

The reason a girl leave a man.
or can be said \"the reason a man
can't get a girl\".

Married man sometimes gets
nice girls, WHY?
You are young, and handsome, but
can't get the gril, WHY?

Girls you don't care fall in love
with you, but you'd never get
the one you want, WHY?

it because of ....
TOO MUCH HUSTLE.
It makes you like a starving animal,
not a sophisticated human.

As much as you hustle, she
runs away from you.
she'll say \"Kimo-i\" and/or \"Uza-i\"

Japanese lesson :
キモい (Kimoi)
feel sicky!

Japanese lesson :
ウザい (wo-za-i)
annoying!

Stop chasing her if you hear
these words from her.

To avoid being \"Kimoi\" and/or
\"Uzai\" man.
you need....

Backup system.
to avoid heavy load...

Chase some, not one.

If you chase only ONE, you'd
hustle too much and become
a UZAI man.
and it would be too heavy for the
girl.

If you chase 5, you don't have
to be afraid of loosing one,
you still have 4 left,
take it easy.
and you can make 5 of them feel
comfortable.

Uzai Level
graph
0 1 2 3 4 5
Number of girls

but once you get one, you
should stop chasing others.
otherwise you will get in trouble.

Things girls expect a man.

Important point of a man for girls

Girls expect : KINDNESS
What \"kindness\" means?

Girls are simple.
so the answer is also simple.

Answer : Surface Kindness
the \"kindness\" you think might be
wrong or girls don't even notice it.

List of \"Surface Kindness\"
1. Walk the street side, let your girl to walk the sidewalk side.
2. let your girl to get in a car, open and close the door for her.
3. let your girl to have a seat first at a restaurant.
4. go to pick her up and take her home back.
5. pay the bill while your girl is out for the restroom.
6. do not show your girl the bill.
7. praise things she has, fashion or hairstyle.
8. praise her in front of other people.
9. ask her \"feel ok?\" or \"not hungry?\" etc often.
and more... things like people say \"lady first\".

Japanese lesson : useful word
大丈夫？ (dai-jo-bu)
are you OK?
also means : mai pen rai.
i'm ok.

you can use Daijobu in these
cases

At a cinema/BTS etc place with AC.
Isn't it little cold here?
DAIJOBU?

At a Thai restaurant
It might be too spicy
for you,
DAIJOBU?

At a Bar
Drunk?
DAIJOBU?

At a Bar (if she said she's drunk)
DAIJOBU!
I'll take you home.

Some DON'Ts
Before you go to get the one, there
are some things you shouldn't do.

DO NOT try to be a friend.
It makes a barrier you have to
break down when you really try to
get her.

DO NOT get too close to her
before telling her you are
going to get her.
Once she trust you as a FRIEND,
she would feel sick when you turn
into a MAN.

DO NOT ask your friends to
talk to her first.
Some Thai boys do this, but it
makes you look like a loser.

DO NOT call/sms/chat her like
a stalker.
It just make her to shout \"UZAI!\"

DO NOT ask her the reason
when she didn't reply.
make her feel \"what are you?\", do
not forget the relationship is not
started yet, so you are just nothing.

Where to find Japanese girls.
There are many Japanese girls in
Bangkok, but where?

BANGKOK

Thonglor
BANGKOK
http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=Thonglor&ie=UTF8&cd=1&sll=29.33986,
-176.267052&sspn=31.231235,166.308822&z=13

There are many Japanese living on
Thonglor, so cafes, bars around
Thonglor to Ekkamai, you can find
many Japanese people.

Soi Rangnam
http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=Soi+Rangnam&sll=13.73137,100.581829
&sspn=0.136572,0.230885&ie=UTF8&ll=13.743721,100.581894&spn=0.136565,0.230885&z=13

There are many single Japanese
living on soi Rangnam.
they go to the cafes/bars around
this area.

Bars, pubs and clubs
Some kind of Japanese girls love
going out, you'll see many
Japanese girls at famous
bars/pubs, especially on the
weekend.

KL, Malaysia

Sorry, No idea...
Could anybody suggest?

SINGAPORE

Ask @preetamrai

NOTICE
one thing i should tell you.

People say Japanese girls in
Bangkok are not really like
Japanese girls in Japan.
but still Japanese...

Thank you kha :)
@31o5